intellectuallymolested
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Hey,
I am a (21 M) who has been PMO since 11. Although I have had plenty of sexual encounters throughout my teens, with only problems being lack of satisfaction in the bedroom, after COVID hit I reverted to PA which tbh has spiralled out of control. Ever since then I have noticed slight ED and flatlining in the past 2 years. Over my 20s I haven’t been the most responsible, experimenting with drugs and have smoked marijuana daily for 2 years. Sexually I just feel like a shell of my former self, I don’t wake up with wood, I don’t have many sexual urges and have even turned down sex multiple times because I knew this was an issue.
I have just started a relationship with a girl that I am really into. While it’s hard to know if she’s the one, I really like her and I don’t know how I should approach telling her about my issue, if at all. I have just recently cut out things in my life that could be causing ED but I am quite sure this issue is specific to PIED. I think I am tackling this issue fairly early but with my lack of sex over these past two years I don’t know for sure whether I can satisfy her. I have also organised a prescription to help get it up as I heard it might help with both the rewiring side and just the off case that my lifestyle choices have caught up.
This just has been a really emotional few days and has been driving me up the wall.
Should I just outright tell her early on? I don’t think this would have any impact on me socially and I’m not scared of admitting to her but I’m afraid of losing her.
How should I approach this?
Regardless this marks day 1 of NoFap and I am dead set on not relapsing.
I am happy to update the thread and explain the circumstances and results as I know it helped me looking at past threads
I am a (21 M) who has been PMO since 11. Although I have had plenty of sexual encounters throughout my teens, with only problems being lack of satisfaction in the bedroom, after COVID hit I reverted to PA which tbh has spiralled out of control. Ever since then I have noticed slight ED and flatlining in the past 2 years. Over my 20s I haven’t been the most responsible, experimenting with drugs and have smoked marijuana daily for 2 years. Sexually I just feel like a shell of my former self, I don’t wake up with wood, I don’t have many sexual urges and have even turned down sex multiple times because I knew this was an issue.
I have just started a relationship with a girl that I am really into. While it’s hard to know if she’s the one, I really like her and I don’t know how I should approach telling her about my issue, if at all. I have just recently cut out things in my life that could be causing ED but I am quite sure this issue is specific to PIED. I think I am tackling this issue fairly early but with my lack of sex over these past two years I don’t know for sure whether I can satisfy her. I have also organised a prescription to help get it up as I heard it might help with both the rewiring side and just the off case that my lifestyle choices have caught up.
This just has been a really emotional few days and has been driving me up the wall.
Should I just outright tell her early on? I don’t think this would have any impact on me socially and I’m not scared of admitting to her but I’m afraid of losing her.
How should I approach this?
Regardless this marks day 1 of NoFap and I am dead set on not relapsing.
I am happy to update the thread and explain the circumstances and results as I know it helped me looking at past threads