Relationship problems bcoz of porn!!!!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Kevin s, Apr 17, 2020.

  1. Kevin s

    Kevin s Fapstronaut

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    Me nd my gf, we r both 19yr old....when we spent quality time at home....i alwayswant something crazy and more.bt my gf don't really want that...she want only hugging and kissing...bt on 2 out of 10, she enjoyed those thingsrecently she got angry nd told me that im im addicted...nd i held NoFap....im on day 8....bt still i have urges...for running from nightfall i started wearing underwear at night...so what should i do to erase that sexy things from my mind nd continuing nofap????
     
    Last edited: Apr 26, 2020
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  2. johnnythejohn

    johnnythejohn Fapstronaut

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    If you really care about your girlfriend, show her first that you love her, then do your freaky stuff ;)
    Girls are usually more freaky than men are, but they need to feel confortable first. If you show her that you want her only physical, of course she'll feel bad.

    Nofap will improve your relationship's health!
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  3. hey bro... love is about respecting your partner and their choice... if u really love her respect her choice not her body... enjoy love with her, not lust... all i can say is dont force to do what she dont want else once she got irritated with you it will not take more time for her to end this relationship... even u also know relationship are so volatile these days so enjoy your moment with her... let her know how special she is without doing all those stuff u want her to do... and u both are teenagers...things take time... dont rush... take a deep breath... have a nice conversation...let her know you are doing nofap and also tell her your choices you wanted to do and ask her choices and then makeout with mutual decision... and belive whatever stuff you are saying you want to do look better in porn and in real not everyone is comfort with it and for sure you have watch porn more than normal consumption because making such fantasies real come with heavy dose of porn only...focus on her and your nofap... be happy and keep her happy...
     
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  4. Les_Brown

    Les_Brown Fapstronaut

    OP, kindly be considerate and start your post with "TRIGGER WARNING". Quite frankly, your graphic description could be replaced with "my gf wants to simply hug/kiss when we're intimate, but I want more than that." I am not the only one triggered by your unnecessarily descriptive language. Food for thought.
     
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  5. yeah i support this... @Kevin s be more selective for your word...
     

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