Hi guys. I’m in need of some guidance. My boyfriend has come to realise his porn addiction (4-5 months ago) and has begun a reboot in a relationship. We are still intimate throughout this. He communicates that his love tank is empty, that despite reaching climax 1-3 times a day he finds our sex life boring, fantasises about other girls, doesn’t feel wanted by me. I’m very confused. We have started trying that only I initiate intimacy. When I do initiate he feels fantastic for a few hours before retreating into a ‘waiting for the next’ time to happen. If I don’t initiate fast enough, then he will initiate and then say that because I didn’t interpret his need, it therefore doesn’t count towards him feeling loved by me. I understand wanting to feel wanted by me so I do my best to fulfil this. I have expressed that I feel like a substitute for pornography to which he agreeable. But then doesn’t want to look at ways he could improve in his attitude or in the way we come together intimately. I feel like a failure and then on the other hand, angry because I feel like I give a ‘service’ and that we don’t build intimacy, just please him. Any feedback/advise on what to do from here would be appreciated.