Buzz Lightyear, I recommend you to walk out of this relationship - for her sake! First of all, your girlfriend made a mistake to start a relationship with you in the first place. The bible says that we should not unequally yoked! That means, Christians should marry only Christians - otherwise they may set up themselves for disaster! How can two walk together if they do not agree? By the way, I'm a bible believing Christian. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 18. When I was 20 years old, I made that big mistake to begin a closer relationship with a muslim. I was somehow deceived, because he had grown up in a Christianized country, and thus he seemed open to Christianity. He did believe in God, and he was actually the one who first asked me the quetion whether I believed in God. But he was very secular in his mind, and he absolutely wanted sex. Well, we started getting intimate right from the beginning. At that time, I also had that liberal view like your girlfriend; that my boyfriend and I could do basically everything when it comes to physical intimacy - but that we should only abstain from sexual intercourse. To me, this meant keeping pure until marriage. Of course that was playing with fire. To make a long story short: After about 8 weeks, I ended up allowing him to penetrate me. Until this very day, I consider this the biggest mistake of my life. Having lost my virginity to a man who is not in my life anymore, sucks in a way. I have forgiven him, so I'm not really struggling in that sense. Now this is about 25 years ago, and I still haven't gotten back my virginity (and I'm still not married yet by the way...).