Remember the fallen

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Deleted Account, Jun 18, 2019.

  1. BlueHorizon

    BlueHorizon New Fapstronaut

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    Some people leave NoFap bc they were able to accomplish their goals and they just want to move on. Good for them! :)

    Unfortunately most members that delete their accounts is due to negative stuff. Many delete out of frustration due to their recovery setbacks. Some leave because they were bullied or harassed. And others have left bc they were just too vulnerable making it easy to fall for beautiful words only to realize that the person who said them didn't really mean what they said. I've read quiet a few posts were NF members were swept off their feet only to be left suspended in mid-air by charming members who have a way with words.
    Why am I posting this?
    Because I just want to emphasize that we should all be here supporting each other not making recovery more difficult than it already is. It makes me feel so sad to know that many good and caring members left under negative circumstances.
    We should focus on our goals and be kind to each other.
    Let's stay safe and believe that we can and will recover for good :)
     
    Last edited: Sep 24, 2019
  2. IAmLegion

    IAmLegion Fapstronaut

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    Not so fast buddy. ;)
    I'm staying away from the forum, but definitely not "fallen". In fact, things are working out exactly as I planned.

    Well.
    Time to go again.

    *Poof*
     
  3. Hey man that's awesome. Hope you are well. Take care! :)
     
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  4. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I remember when she said "Bloody" this and "Bloody" that. It was cool.
     
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  5. MuscularSherlockHolmes

    MuscularSherlockHolmes Fapstronaut

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    He didn't delete his account. But he is gone nonetheless.
     
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  6. MuscularSherlockHolmes

    MuscularSherlockHolmes Fapstronaut

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    Oh, I didn't notice her leaving. She had some terrible accident and life dealt her the joker as usual. Such a sad thing to happen.
     
  7. Hros

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    I don't think she left. She was last seen just a couple of weeks ago and she wrote she was busy.
     
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  8. JC_ALCO

    JC_ALCO Fapstronaut

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    I miss her. I think she’s really cool and a tough lady getting through life with the cards that were dealt her.

    Hopefully she’ll check in again.
     
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  9. Jonny1992

    Jonny1992 Fapstronaut

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    Who made this thread? The person itself is one of the fallen!
     
  10. brilliantidiot

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    Gaius Julius Caesar
     
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  11. Deadlihood

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    Thug Life / MotherFucker / Livelihood / Mr. Fox / Son of a Bitch / ? [DEACTIVATED]

    Fake Til You Become / Gaston [?]

    FlawedChristian / HopefulChristian [BANNED]

    @Waldo101 [AWOL]

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  12. Ajikan

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    Makes me sad :(
     
  13. Coffee Candy

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  14. Coffee Candy

    Coffee Candy Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

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    Another reason 1 could leave is people casually speak out accusatory words such as bully/manipulator/ and toxic against people.
    Lets not use these words lightly or for making a situation look worse than it is..it can be truly hurtful for a member.

    Its good to keep in mind that just because some decide to stay on the forum as opposed to giving up and leaving doesn't mean they're (always) having the best of times or that they don't have people that don't like them/give them a hard time.

    Always know your reasons for staying and hang strong. I miss Gaius and Jim still..and I hope they do return. I would def miss it if some of my friends left but I would probably still stay because I still feel I need to be here and I also want to be here to help others.
    So if you are going through something with other members just make different friends, know you'll make more, and keep your reasons for staying in mind and push through it!
    It's worth while.

    Maybe also be rational and that if a friend of yours deleted and didn't give you means of communication outside of NoFap they must not have been that close of a friend anyways.,
    However, people who delete almost always return if they need to be here, so I wouldn't worry too much sometimes. A lot of people return : )
    Stay hopeful, guys.
     
  15. brilliantidiot

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  16. aspiringwriter1997

    aspiringwriter1997 Fapstronaut

    Jocko2019 and Starkey [both deleted]
     
  17. Coffee Candy

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    Basith maybe..:/
    and goodnice 2.0
     
    Last edited: Oct 6, 2019
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  18. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

    Thank your for this suggestion.

    I love this guy’s journal. It’s very self-absorbed. Reminds me of a NoFap far side comic strip character.

    Thx


     
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  19. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

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    Both of these Dudes were a badass. Both were really encouraging when I first started.

    Greatest advice he gave me was that he found it necessary to “delete and reboot” his character (in real life).”

    God that makes so much sense after doing things for everyone most of my life.

    Inspired me to read : “how to not give a fuck.”
     
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  20. Max Fisher

    Max Fisher Fapstronaut

    Yeah! I couldn't put it down. It was off the rails but I enjoyed his writing style a lot.
     
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