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Remembering porn scenes affects recovery?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by wisdom.seeker, May 6, 2021.

  1. wisdom.seeker

    wisdom.seeker Fapstronaut

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    Hello.

    Does somebody know if remembering P scenes affects the rebooting? Is it equivalent to watch P?

    I know we can't control memories coming and going in our minds, but I try to distract my mind focusing and doing other things.

    Even if it doesn't affects I'll keep avoiding because these memories are the trigger to fall back to PMO, but I wanna know
     
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  2. PM recovery guy

    PM recovery guy Fapstronaut

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    Im wondering this also, because sometimes im getting intense flashbacks and Im also getting aroused by them even if I dont want to..

    Im trying to insert new thoughts for my brain about porn when this happens, thoughts about those actors in the scenes who might be in pain and chances are high that they dont enjoy doing those thing AT ALL, they might have/get stds, and that P industry is really bad in so many different ways. and that this is definetly not something I want to be looking at /seeing in my head because of (insert your own reasons here).

    You can google articles about Pstars speaking up about reality of the P industry. There is one good one at "Collective shout" website, I cant post link so you will have to google it.

    Reading these articles really helped me with my own flashbacks, and made pornstars feel like "more human" to me, that they have feelings, they are hurting, they have misrable lifes because of porn and are doing drugs and even trying suicides, because they all traumatized amd feeling so bad.
     
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  3. capablex100

    capablex100 Fapstronaut

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    I think flashbacks like that are more just a symptom of excessive P use/addiction, aka the reason you are quitting in the first place. Over time, if you abstain long enough, those memories will start to fade away. In the meantime when they do pop up, don't freak out or feel bad about yourself, just calmly let them go and distract yourself with something else. They are only damaging to your progress if you let yourself dwell on them and let them trigger you to relapse.
     
  4. Don't worry about stuff like that. Just focus on rebooting
     
  5. wisdom.seeker

    wisdom.seeker Fapstronaut

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    Good idea. I heard about the dark side of porn, but never took seriously. Yeah, they are humans too. They suffer and their lifes are not an endless pleasure. I'll always try to remember.
     
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  6. DaleEarnhartJr

    DaleEarnhartJr Fapstronaut

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    Thought comes, thoughts pass. Acknowledge them, say “I don’t need this”, and move on.

    This might sound really strange, but it’s like a break up. It’s gets easier over time.
     
  7. wisdom.seeker

    wisdom.seeker Fapstronaut

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    72 days. It's my longest streak without PMO, but new questions arrived.

    1 - Sometimes I still remember many porn scenes and start to get excited.
    If I start to M using only one P video many times can I slowly erase the other scenes?
    I know it doesn't sound like a good idea, but these memories doesn't seem to get weaker.
    Furthermore, I understood that the greatest P problem is the excessive amount of scenes and girls.
    Only one "softcore" scene and one girl could help?

    2 - Morning woods returned and when I get excited remembering P scenes i get an erection,but I feel like it's not like before.
    From other streaks I know that my penis get very sensitive and i get premature ejaculation
    Will my erections and my ejaculation go back to normal?
    I know that 90 days is not a magic number, but I'm next to reach it and lockdowns are over.
    If I get an oportunity to do real sex I don't want to fail miserably beacuse of ED or premature ejaculation
     
    Last edited: Apr 26, 2022
  8. m9damn

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    If these memories are really stimulating to you it means you are doing well, your dopamine receptors are more sensitive.
    If you watch only one specific P video, it will not be stimulating after a short time, because the most dopamine stimulating things are the new experiences and new things.
    You are right, the excessive amount of scenes and girl is the problem.
     

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