People on any online forum, social media site, etc, might not be who they say they are. We've had plenty of reported cases of LARPing / catfishing on here who say that they are looking for accountability, but are really here to masturbate to sexy messages, to cause people in recovery from porn and unwanted compulsive behavior to slip up. Some people really get off on trying to cause porn addicts/people trying to quit camming or online sexting / RP to relapse. Report messages that are unsolicited attempts to sext that make you uncomfortable. Try to report the entire string of messages so that mods can see the context. We don't care if users choose to sext or whatever that you're private life, so long as it is mutually desired (consensual), but if one user gets multiple reports for attempting to solicit people into sexual behavior out of nowhere, that's a good sign that they should be suspended or banned. Especially be concerned if they ask to communicate with you outside of the site, such as email, Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, etc. It is very likely a spammer or at worst, somebody looking to screw with you somehow by getting your real-world identity.