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Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Lilla_My, Feb 1, 2019.

  1. Queenie%Bee

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    Let me ask you this , do you believe Porn could be casual to someone that had a significant addiction in the past ? If your answer is NO , then your responses are null here only because this section is about relationships that have /had porn addiction in them . Not being feisty , it’s a legit question:)
     
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  2. Mordobarn

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    Um… really? He would rather screw his hand in front of a video monitor than make love to his wife — not much wrong?

    Would there be nothing wrong with going to dinner with a stranger instead of going out with your wife?

    Or going on holiday with a stranger instead of your wife?

    Sex is the most intimate thing that two people can do together. If you're using artificial aids instead of spending time with your lover, there's something wrong, even if the PMO is "casual".

    Additionally, saying that there's nothing wrong with casual PMO is much the same as saying that there's nothing wrong with casual heroin use. Your brain just doesn't work that way — it is physically changed by porn.

    Seriously, Advocate109, please read all of the information on the main site to understand how porn affects your brain and leads to increasing use.
     
  3. Queenie%Bee

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    Very well said ! Another good one , “ do you want a stranger at your deathbed or someone who loves you deeply !! “
     
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  4. Advocate109

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    Read the rest of my post on this forum buddy. The fact that your comparing masturbating and porn to heroin is hilarious for one.
    Most people can watch porn and have it not be a problem. Not on this site obviously, but shes not here for her, shes here for him. I clearly state "theres nothing wrong with it unless it gets in the way of the relationship" and i dont think thats the case here, i think its just a bad person, not a PA.
     
  5. Lilla_My

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    Funny you should say that...
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  6. Ges852

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    Most people can drink and have it not a problem. People still can become addicts and wreck their world and loved ones around them.
    There is nothing wrong with drinking unless it gets in the way of the relationship. She thinks that there is an issue of p and m, so I would say it is a problem in their relationship. Who knows if he is just a bad person, maybe he is just an addict.
     
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  7. Advocate109

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    #1. I looked this image up on google and it is only coming up on christian websites and other places SELLING anti porn material. However i DID find it on an anti heroin website in a different language. Im assuming thats the original.
    Im not saying that porn is okay for your brain. But it doesnt affect the P300 brain waves like heroin and meth and other substances do.
    We also dont know what this is measuring, blood flow, oxygen levels, dopamine levels? Even if this is a porn and heroin, its just one specific type of scan that could literally mean nothing.
    #2 porn addicts usually arent violent (in the sense that a porn addiction doesnt make you violent) anyone who is violent towards their spouse isnt a good spouse. Especially if repeated.
     
  8. Advocate109

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    Thats fair as hell
     
  9. Lilla_My

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    There are quite a fair amount of research regarding the harmful effect done to the brain on porn from PubMed, a non-religious source. You should look into that.

    In this article, a researcher from Cambridge University says that porn addiction mirrors drug use when brain scans of users are compared.

    https://fightthenewdrug.org/cambridge-neuroscientist-valerie-voon-porn-drug-addict-brain/
     
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  10. Advocate109

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    Thanks for the research! Ive been looking and looking but havent found anything credible!
     
  11. Advocate109

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    A scholarly article from the same sourse says there are similarities but not enough is known yet to call compulsive sexual behaviors an addiction
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4990495/
     

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  12. RUNDMC

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    The percentage of men who don't watch porn is nowhere near 25%
     
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  13. Sinbad

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    Please leave him.
     
  14. Lilla_My

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    That porn watching causes changes to the brain is quite well known. You seem to be fine with that, so please go on and watch, it's your life. I assume you will always be honest to your partner and let her know why you will never be only hers.

    I've seen what depression and porn does to a person, and I can never unlearn what I know now, nor do I want to.
     
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  15. Queenie%Bee

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    Can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube ;)
     
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  17. Advocate109

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    Lol im quitting porn because my compulsive porn and masturbation habbits have been detrimental to my OCD.
    My partner WANTS to watch porn WITH me. We've done it. But im open with her and she knows i have HOCD and porn is bad for it and shes supportive in me stopping. In no means does she have to stop, because its not a problem for her.
    Im just letting you know porn isnt the reason you should leave him and people here make it seem like its way worse than it is. It can be bad for some people who develop compulsive patterns (as i just read in the scholarly peer reviewed articles). But everyone who watches porn is not a porn addict and the casual porn watchers brain is just fine.
     
  18. Queenie%Bee

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  19. hardowner

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    Just kidding.... :D
     
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  20. Lilla_My

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    I'm sure the occasional cigarette smoker is fine too. But no one in their right mind would recommend it.

    Women get dry and unsatisfied with their relationship when watching porn, so enjoy what you have before it's gone.
     

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