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Reward system for no PM

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ResetJeff, Jun 5, 2017.

  1. ResetJeff

    ResetJeff Fapstronaut

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    10
    8
    Married.
    Rebooting myself.
    Doing easy mode and our sex has been improving.
    Confessed to wife on May 8th.
    Have had her help with tons of research.
    Have not faltered since before may 8th.

    Want to set up a reward system starting today.
    1 day
    2 days
    4 days
    8 days
    16 days
    30
    60
    90
    Or something of that nature

    Was just thinking simple trinkets.
    Bike tube
    Bike grips
    Simple 10 dollar stuff that go toward healthy behavior

    Has anyone done something similar? My wife seems to have seen someone do this but we can't find it again.
     
  2. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    I give my SO tokens.
    And we celebrate the big milestones.
    But the tokens are so he can carry around something that says I'm proud of him as a daily reminder of his progress.
    I'm not doing gifts, because incentives are similar to bribes and I don't know if as a mom of 5 kids, I want to go that route.
    However, celebrating the big milestones 30*60,90,120,etc (he's doing 410 days) we are planning special things to be shared.
    Hes leaving his addiction and relationship with himself and redevoting himself to US, so we are doing things that way.
    I hope that makes sense.
    I love that someone else is doing something similar, I wish you guys the best!
     
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  3. ResetJeff

    ResetJeff Fapstronaut

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    Thanks! Great suggestion. Definitely more meaningful when it comes from my wife. She read this before I even did and seems to have run with it:)
     

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