Root cause to get rid of Porn Addiction.

Perfectly summed up the issue. Thank you very much for your effort.

I wish I could go back to 2004 to warn my younger self in the moment where I received the first DVD full of P from a friend. That would have made it much easier. Now it is as it is.
Not having any children yet, but I’m already wondering how can I help my future sons to avoid that circle, without just installing blockers and forbidding it...

 

Interesting... me too, back in time in 2014 to unplug my computer when I entered first date on sites of porn.

 

Deep ideas. Thank you for sharing your reflections.
Id like to know your on a similar subject. You know? Its been a long time since I dont enjoy porn much, the kind two or more are having sex. I enjoy nudes and the videos of a solo girl wether the girl is getting naked or doing sth to herself. I dont like to see a guy in a video, turns me off somehow.
Now Id like to know what you notice of this condition as a third eye. Specifically, why a man shouldnt see nudes or watch naked girls? You've described how porn can lead to cock fetish, Id like to know what could be the end of this.

 

I think it depends on what you are watching there and how realistic it is. If you always feed your brain with perfect women it will get used of it. But in reality women are not perfect. You might become very choosy (Does this word exist?) and for every detail which is not perfect you might be unhappy.

Also, how often do you change the person you are watching? In reality you have your partner and that’s it. There might be some people who are quite active on Tinder, etc. but still... they might then have two different women per week. When you watch porn, you might watch woman over woman within hours. If you then go back to your partner, your brain might not be satisfied anymore because it is the same woman over and over again.

 

Knowing your why's will help as to why you want to quit. It take time to develop tnouth.

 

Really, thanks for share this. Post like this explain that we are on the same boat.
When you watch weird porn, porn that you mentioned, after a while you start to feel alone because in real world nothing is so extreme and strong, even normal sex, so, accordingly, you start to isolate yourself, start to feel anxiety about your fetish and you think that you're wrong. Just because you felt in this porn circle addiction. I am here since 3/4 days and I really starting to pick this porn addicition seriously.

I'm wasting my life. Now, it's the moment to stop it.

 

I agree, I relapsed yesterday because I didn't control my thoughts I masturbated then relapsed twice. I was doing well, but a moment of weakness killed my dreams.

It really hard to break this loop. But there is hope. I hope someday I get rid completely if this addiction. I wish you all the same.

 

Very insightful thread this is. Thank you for putting out the effort to write this and provide us with a reference and the useful tips you shared in the post. |Hanuman|
There's this notorious serial killer of the past "Ted Bundy" who admitted that he himself loved pornography and when he was in prison, he said that the common ground amongst people who committed hideous crimes and rape were all linked to pornography itself. Porn indeed is the work of the devil..

Here's the vid of him confessing:

 

hey there,
i am new to NoFap but have been trying to reboot from past 2 year. i am 17 now. know i am trying to reboot porn because i am highly questioning my sexuality from past few months .because of some reasons.(warning:-this is a long post and I apologise to u if u get any triggers and thaks for reading my post

here i go i am a porn addict from the age of 14. i daily watch porn from that day it feels good to me i almost covered all times of porn except gay porn because i dont like to watch such porn. i am very innocent child i dont even about sex until i am 13. because of my health issue i spend my whole year at home without going to school. i started watching porn at this time .later i started watching some vanilla and some type of gangbangs. till when i am suffering from health issue my only friend is porn i dont allow to go out of my house. i always catching a phone and watching porn daily slowly i started fapping to porn. and after a year i am cured of my health issue so i allowed to go out to school but after the school i often watch porn daily slowly my fapping habit has increased and after went out for further studies i am actually fine with my porn but i used to musturbate 5 times a day. in this time I used fap imaging girls and later some time I used to fap imaging one of my friend ,sounds strange but I get this fantasies ocassionally but I never sexually attracted to the same sex .all sexually was only with women to me. I don't care about that fantasies

HERE MY H OCD STARTED IN MY LIFE. So days passes and I went to next year of my studies but due to this corona virus pandemic there no schools for us. So I got lot of empty time this time spoiled my life , during this time I used to fap 5-6 times daily by watching porn. slowly days passed my fapping to porn is also continuing.HERE HOW MY H OCD STARTED. I don't know much about sexuality I know only about gay people and straight people and I did not focus on that particularly I thought transgendered people are gay that's it and we all are straight men. I used to share my porn habits with my friend who don't know about porn. One day he said me that a person near by his house or somewhere become gay and doing something like gay.i was like, what a man can become gay suddenly like that .here my anxiety raised and I started fear that if I was also a gay or I will become gay in future .then coming to home I searched for the answer in GOOGLE that anyone can become gay suddenly I read something that they can. that's it my anxiety raised up and I am scared and terrified that if I will become gay. I started checking if I acted any thing gay in my past or not. I found that gay fantasies with one of my friend as a proof and getting more and more depressed but I have that Fantasies with my friend beacuse he looks like girl that's it . Later I found that many people get that fantasies it's not problem than I am ok. But later that day I started getting all intrusive thoughts of being gay. And mind says ur gay ur gay,every single time I am checking and rechecking by viewing porn and fapping to see I am aroused or not. If I see a attractive boy I am getting anxious and depressed. Days passed then I am feeling more and more nervous even though I have a urge to watch porn due to my addiction. i don't know about h OCD when I was searching a video about sexuality In YouTube I found this video of h OCD and feel some less anxious but later that when I was watching porn I was attracted(false attractions) to penis (note:-i always watch women in porn) I feel more anxious I never felt like that before.i don't like bj but know my mind says watch some bj video. Sometimes I feel I am attracted to my own penis and I want to self suck, i never felt like this before and I feel more anxious and at that time. I know that was h OCD because i never felt it before. After some days passed i have watched a video of denial and I thought If I am denial. And this thoughts are more distressing me more.later I was searching in google for reassurence, I found a forum which is some what linking to my problem but that person with that problem said he think he is a gay or bi. I am stucked their I feel more and more nervous.

I did felt any thing about a penis before by watching porn,I always attracted to women in porn. But know by this h OCD I developed a penis fetish and I know I am 100 percent straight but my h OCD mind is saying I am gay.by reading other websites forums my anxiety raises please help me .i sometimes agree what ever my sexuality Is let's leave it but my mind can't set down and I am getting more anxiety because if this thoughts and feelings will ruin my life forever . I only have hope on this NoFap website for my problem.

PLEASE HELP ME !! I want to get rid of this unwanted intrusive thoughts and and penis fetish. And I am know 8th day on NoFap and I feel less anxious and but when I watch porn my anxiety kicks up and i want to know any one with this problem and give me some suggestions to get rid of this intrusive thoughts and penis fetish
Sorry for the grammer mistakes.

 

thank u thank u soo much sir i will follow it and i will never watch porn again. i know how porn had made my life worse. and i am a indian. proud of u sir, ur helping a lot of member like me who are suffering from h ocd. thank u sir jai hind.

 

Porn is evil!

 

90% of rapes happen because of porn? Do you have any evidence to back up such a bold statement?

Did you know that 96% of statistics are made up?......