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Running back to PORN!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Aboodhi, Nov 1, 2019.

  1. Aboodhi

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    I've this awful habit of running back to Porn whenever I feel depressed or stressed or when I face a hard situation. Porn helps me forget everything and keeps me occupied. I know it's a nasty habit. But I couldn't help myself from Porn. It's like my gateway from all real world problems. Even now I had a situation at work here and all my mind is thinking of is porn. My mind feels like just go fall into porn and forget everything. Please talk me out through this! Thanks!!
     
  2. Jack1211

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    I personaly not addicted to porn in anyway...i know myself very well and I could say that i could go for years without it, but at the same time i don't have a problem in watching it, its just an ordinary thing to me, ofcourse i am talking about myself, because some people may really need to stop for a moment and consider quitting cold turkey, the point is that the one should use his common sense in these topics. Have A good day!
     
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  3. bennettthef4pstronaut

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    Im having the exact same problem but it only happens when I have too much free time but not while im going to school. So we must keep busy
     
  4. IbrahimViking

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    I have a suggestion. Try to do it at least once, even if you don't understand how it will work, but only when it feels right. There will be a moment when you'll feel drawn to do this:
    That big bad scary feeling that you are afraid to feel, the one you don't let yourself feel, the emotion that is so uncomfortable, that you need to escape by putting your attention onto something else, - feel it. Sit alone in a room, lock yourself (yes, a bathroom is fine), in a safe environment, just sit on a chair, or what have you, in the middle of a room, and FEEL that bad feeling. Have the bad thoughts you are afraid to have, have the feelings you are trying so hard to resist. Let them move through you - they just want to leave. There, in a safe environment, let yourself have all the despair, anger, what have you. And then try to feel as much of it as you can, until you are really really done. Do not resist and do not hurry yourself. Really let yourself have what you already have.
    You'll know when it's over. You're welcome.
    P. S. An important thing to understand, is that this is not an advice to think up and invent some "bad feeling". Pain hurts, and there's no value it it by itself. But what you resist, persists, so let yourself have what you already have (my guess it's the feeling of unease), so that it can move.
     
  5. Ghost.o.o

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    No you are not going to porn my friend i am not addicted to porn i only faped. Please don't do it. Its Not worth it if you relapse you will get stuck in a nofap & releapse circle which is danger i have been there just fapped & started again and again i got stucked there for 1 year helpless until i really promised to myself. If i relapse i get nothing in return and thats it today i reached day 27 first time after 1 year i didn't get past day 25 but today i feel the incredible benefits and do you know what i am not going in that circle again forever. I am going 90 day and beyond not looking back. Please stay out of that porn trap. Do something productive. Go out and see the nature keep your self busy stay out of computer and phones also internet. We are with you choose your steps wisely do not mess it up. Have a great journey :)
     
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  6. Aboodhi

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    @IbrahimViking I'll try for sure!!
     
  7. Aboodhi

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    Thanks @Ghost.o.o and good luck to you on this new journey!!!
     
  8. bennettthef4pstronaut

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    Everyone needs to come to the realisation that the porn industry is taking masculine energy away from men and giving it to weaker, emotional women. You have to come to a point where you say enough is enough I’m no longer allowing some perverts on a screen take away my life force
     
  9. bennettthef4pstronaut

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    If you go back on the road to relapse look at the women like enemies and obstacles of your path to success. You’ll quickly snap out of it and get back on your purpose. You should only ejaculate to create a child otherwise it will create financial, physical, spiritual and mental growth
     
  10. bennettthef4pstronaut

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    That’s also how you prevent wet dreams. By not fantasising and focusing on your goals.
    *girls also find this very attractive because if you’re fantasising they can sense neediness
     
  11. I'm putting a stop to this unnecessary shit already. It's so stupid anyways
     
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  13. control your life

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    P have the same effect as pain pill has . it numbs the pain ,and it will give fault sense of pleasure and feeling that everything is ok . when its effects are gone , your pain is worst , your motivation is gone , your vitality is drained . P is a lier and it does it very good . the thing is its not real . if we love the truth , we must get away from its dependance
     
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  14. Remember, no amount of porn will ever love you back
     
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  15. Joe1023

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    @Aboodhi of course this is what you think about! Porn is the material we addicts create our fantasy world.out of! Its our comfort, our help, and our automatic, immediate GO TO when we feel.....well, pretty much anything, but especially sadness, anger, confusion, or frustration. And many times, its actually just a way we self-medicate because of some other huge problem we just don't want to deal with. Don't ever feel alone or like a reject because that's what your mind wants. Just be sure to get into recovery from it!

    I wish you the best of luck!
     
  16. Aboodhi

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    Thanks for the wisdom @bennettthef4pstronaut ! I'll really try my best this time. Already on my 4th day
     
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  17. Aboodhi

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    @thorswrath32 wise words.
     
  18. Aboodhi

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    Thanks @Joe1023 and good luck to both us.
     
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  19. Purekingsoul

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    Meditation
     
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  20. path_finder

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    Porn is a good short time Coping mechanism. But to me, every time I do it, the next day I feel like shit. My mood, concentration and other Things go down. Then there is the other side: If you still manage to work well and study well, why should you resist the occasional porn fap? Everything in Moderation. It's a difficult Question. I asked myself also often: Would I have studied better, if I would've never fapped to porn? Who knows.
     

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