what a topic title huh im not actually scared of girls but in a way i actually think i am so i met a pretty girl online and she asked me to hang out with her the next day, but i refused saying i was busy and she should give me her phone number if she wants to hook up another time. thing is, it was fine for me flirting with her but as soon as it would become real, ie a real meeting, i would get this anxiety. i was quite surprised, to not say overwhelmed, by it. i dont know whether its because of my last breakup which left me scattered and torn to pieces or because of my 20 year porn habit which kind of put me in this shell which im afraid to go out of. im naturally very confident and outgoing, also with girls, as long as its casual, but when it comes to being intimate or as in this particular matter just the idea of meeting someone with a romantic interest, i get this uncomfortable feeling, kind of an urge to run away.. has anyone had experienced this, did anyone overcome this? my thought is that all of this is due to my old pmo habits and it all will be cured if i achieve long enough a streak.