Secretly texting girlfriends mum

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Trucker, May 31, 2018.

  1. Trucker

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    In general response of course I know it's wrong and could hurt a lot of people but I can't help how I feel about her,that why I wanted to hear others opinions. Merely condemning it as 'bad' wasn't really the advice I was hoping for but at least I know what to expect from people should anything escalate.
    I have curbed the texts but still had a couple of relapses.
    I realise even this isn't harmless fun but hardly crime of the century either
     
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  2. All I have to say is I love older women. The woman I was casually seeing is quite a bit older than me. I was (still am) heads over heels for her but she wasn’t as interested in me as I was in her. Anyhow, I can understand your dilemma. The older women can be very alluring.
     
  3. people are getting a dopamine hit just reading the op's story. thats why this thread has continued for so long even w/o a response from OP until friday.
     
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  4. Trucker

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    I had a short downtime from having contact with her and thought I'd leave it unless she messaged me then all I'm doing is replying.
    Still spent a long time thinking of her but also how I could be creating a whole lot of hurt and heartbreak.
    Only just resumed some small talk but still more than a bit flirty between us.
    I get a throbbing erection every time just from her name appearing on my phone,she really pushes my buttons more than anyone I've known before, can't remember ever feeling so much lust for someone. Can't help fantasising about admitting how I feel and my girls cool about it but seriously wouldn't expect to fulfill that little fantasy ever
     
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  5. Bchrist

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    Uuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    Could’ve used a trigger warning here.
     
  6. Trucker

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    Yep,about that
     
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  7. Bchrist

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    I need to hear the age of the lady
     
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  8. Trucker

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    'Need' ? Why? She's older than anyone I've fancied before but super hot for her age.
     
  9. LetsdothisK

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    If i read all that right, then yes, you did cheat on your gf with her mom. Just because there wasnt any sex involved, doesnt mean it isnt cheating.

    But for your sake and for the sake of your GF, distance yourself from this situation. Your GF doesnt deserve this. She doesnt deserve being cheated on, let alone her mom being involved.. she doesnt need to know either. Apologize and distance yourself and then work on improving yourself.
     
  10. primaljade

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    There’s enough moral Bs on this thread. Hyperbola isn’t going to help anything.
     
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  11. Ra's Al Ghul

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    This reminds me of that music video "I'm in love with Stacey's mom".
     
  12. Immature

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    Except this guy is way older and should know better.

    Though I have to admit I did some stupid shit at his age, right on up to the present, so......
     
  13. Devil's Details

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    If not troll: This isn't exactly the best place to come for rel'n advice. Worse place yet to get advice on how to score on something kinky.

    If troll: Kudos for the lulz, sir.
     
  14. ultrafabber

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    You HAVE BEEN CHEATING ALREADY. Flirting and sexting IS cheating. Don't do mental gymnastics. And don't make things even worse. Stop any kind of interaction now.
     
  15. Hisself

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    Call Jerry Springer, he’ll know what to do.
     
  16. Gotham Outlaw

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    Hahaha! That's fuckin great
     
  17. Budh

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    Blimey, and here we thought this sort of thing only happened in MILF porn.

    I must admit this is not good for everybody involved. She should've taken the moral high road considering she's the mother of your GF and said thanks for the compliments but please now stop. If she is this easy to flirt with then she may have already been unfaithful to her husband, I hope not.
     
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  18. Here's the thing man. If you do have sex with her mom it doesn't make you a bad person. It just makes you a human like the rest of us. Having said that, I can't imagine how hard that shit is to turn down. For real. Lust is the strongest fucking emotion besides love. Another thing that could be getting you so aroused is the fact that you're hiding it from your girlfriend and the fact that you could get caught can make it so much hotter.

    My advice is to stop doing it, because at best you have great sex with her mom, but it will probably end there and you will only hurt your girlfriend. If you love your girlfriend, you shouldn't even be questioning having sex with her mom. If you're gonna have sex with her mom, break things off with your girlfriend. There's absolutely nothing wrong with casual sex, but don't cheat and hurt other people. Shit's not cool man. This is gonna sound weird, but imagine if she was texting your dad and was wanting to have sex with him and you found out. How would that make you feel? Think about it.
     
  19. Budh

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    That's a good point. Also treat her mother like you'd want your own mother to be treated.
     
  20. put the phone down and step away from the milf. You know it will end badly.
     

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