Seeking advice on lovemaking and female orgasm

Can he tell you’re breath that you orgasm if he listens?

 

Not if I want to hide it, no. Although I don’t see any reason to hide it from him. Usually he will ask if he isn’t sure, lol.... even not hiding it he doesn’t always know!

 

lots of good advice here. 1 thing, only about 30% of women can have an orgasm through penetration, so don't focus on that.
My girlfriend has had about the same amount of O as I have. There were a lot of different ones, and sometimes she didn't even know herself if it was an O or not. But focussing on getting her there is counter productive. If she wants it badly herself, it is counterproductive. Relax, be natural, let go of the focus, sounds like you have a good relationship going, especially if you can talk about sex openly.

yup, faster and harder like in P doesn't work with most or any woman. Not with your fingers, mouth or dick.
Slowly building, varying and in the end a steady rhytm can do the trick.
Mostly, relax, enjoy, take it easy.
Especially where someone says, it starts days before the lovemaking, too true

 

Spot on! Porn is for (mostly) male fantasy.