Seeking advice on lovemaking and female orgasm

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by black_coyote, Mar 8, 2021.

  1. black_coyote

    black_coyote Fapstronaut

    Thank you for sharing your insights! I feel grateful for your responses! Wish you well! :)
     
  2. Twizza

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    Can he tell you’re breath that you orgasm if he listens?
     
  3. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    Not if I want to hide it, no. Although I don’t see any reason to hide it from him. Usually he will ask if he isn’t sure, lol.... even not hiding it he doesn’t always know!
     
  4. Bobske

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    lots of good advice here. 1 thing, only about 30% of women can have an orgasm through penetration, so don't focus on that.
    My girlfriend has had about the same amount of O as I have. There were a lot of different ones, and sometimes she didn't even know herself if it was an O or not. But focussing on getting her there is counter productive. If she wants it badly herself, it is counterproductive. Relax, be natural, let go of the focus, sounds like you have a good relationship going, especially if you can talk about sex openly.

    yup, faster and harder like in P doesn't work with most or any woman. Not with your fingers, mouth or dick.
    Slowly building, varying and in the end a steady rhytm can do the trick.
    Mostly, relax, enjoy, take it easy.
    Especially where someone says, it starts days before the lovemaking, too true
     
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  5. RDucky

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    Spot on! Porn is for (mostly) male fantasy.
     
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