Hi Jaded.
That you are here is a clear indication that you haven't lost your mind !
This is a good, safe, place to learn from the experiences of others. The journey we all undertake is not simple or easy, but the results are very worth the efforts it takes to succeed. Read some things here, reach out to others, and get on with your journey !
You can do this !
One day at a time is how we all succeed.