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Seems impossible - Temptation is getting harder

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Petros Santos, Jul 10, 2017.

  1. Petros Santos

    Petros Santos Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone. Please, I need help. I have been doing shit. First it began with porn, and now it's escalating to sex with prostitutes. I never had any intimacy with a girl and so I never had a girlfriend and a friendship with a girl. I can't get attracted to them, and I don't feel with motivation to try. I tried many times in the past, but they always reject me, because who I am. I really feel angry when I see a couple kissing or showing affection, and I start to ask, why I don't deserve love. I think that, I hate my self because what happened in the past. I have the feeling of not being enough for a girl. I need some tips to help me control meditation. I feel that I can't take action and do something. I already found two jobs for my mind be busy, but anyway I cant get avoid temptation of porn and sex.

    Greetings.
     
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  2. Themadfapper

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    As far as the sex and wanking go. Tough it out for those first couple days. After you get past 3-4 days it does get easier. Obviously, it takes longer than 3-4 days, but those first couple days are the hardest.

    As far as love goes. It looks like you are seeing physical attraction, lust and sexual acts as love. Real love is a rarity these days, IMO. Anyways who gives a shit what other people do. You are you and you are living your life. Everyone else being happy or sad really has no impact on your own happiness unless they are doing something that affects you.
     
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  3. Jarom

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    Themadfapper is right be happy with who you are. The truth of life is that no two people are the same. We each have our believes and values we either learn or are born with. The right woman is out their and you will find her when the time is right. Take time to focus on yourself and abstain from your urges. Everyone who starts on this road is on a journey of self discovery, so embrace it; and take time to become the person that you want to, see the beauty in your life.
     
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  4. Petros Santos

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    Thanks jarom and Themadfapper for the advice. I think that the first days are gonna be very difficult to abstain, but I will do firstly a commitment of 3 days and then I will increase, just for the goal not seem almost impossible and see some progress. I already tried meditation, but maybe I'm not doing in the right way. I really want to live life. The last time that I laughed and had real fun was 7 years ago. I was a very happy kid with no limits in my head. I felt free when I was young and now I feel dead, but you guys gave some hope. I have to enter in hard mode, because I think that's the only way, because of chaser effects.
     

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