Self-Mastery May 2017. Time to be PMO-Free in May, official monthly commitment thread.

Hello, i need your input. I woke up today morning and noticed I was masturbating while asleep and didn't end up cumming but I was edging. Does this count as a relapse?

 

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From what you have said, I would say no. However, you should seriously consider steps to prevent this from happening, as in for example what you wear when you go to sleep. I'd recommend wearing briefs and not loose boxers, and if necessary wear a pair of jeans/pants and a belt as well.

Maybe others could share their opinion as well?

Have a good one!

 

Sounds like a plan, man!

Two weeks of May left, and you'll be ready for June!

Welcome aboard!

 

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My two cents, anything that happens while u R not conscious does not count.

However, depending on how u sleep, u need to prevent ur unconscious mind from undermining ur efforts.

 

Hope I will also be saying the same thing at end of May.

 

Thanks mate! I just remembered I was sleeping with my hands close to my genitals, which is a problem. I will keep in mind not to keep my hands close to my genitals next time! the struggle continues... good luck with your journey.

 

Day two completed. 88 more to go.

 

No new post for more than 50 hours? The month isn't over yet! Anyone who relapses still can make it to 10 days in may!

 

Day 28 in the game and not going out

 

Devil is smart

Lured me to some P-Subs and I almost fell flat on my promise.

Luckily recovered before I fully down the pit hole.

Thanks be to the Lord Almighty.

"We learn more from Failure then from success" -Anonymous

 

Need to pick up more on the Journalling of my experiences in June...

 

Hey Guys ...... I've made it to Day 21 of May...... Think I'm going through a flatline at the moment but I am pushing forward , i WANT this MAY 2017 to be my first month free of PMO ..... EVER !!!!!

 

Committed doesn't mean no failure. Committed means getting back on track everytime we realise we went off.

I will continue to travel in the direction set by my values.

 

My sleep is significantly disrupted at the moment, with vivid dreams, most of which are non-explicit. Abstinence remains strong despite several temptations. This forum gives me a sense of accountability that I was previously struggling to find. Thanks to all for your contributions.

 

I'm in. Based on the UK. 4 days since I did something. Want to kick it for good. I'm married and for now have said no sex either (at least for 30 days). Will see how I get on from there. Interested on any views on that.

Have purged a 10 year collection and set up filters for internet use. For once I'd be happy for my wife to use my laptop after me and I want it to stay that way. Has been affecting me at work. Not been concentrating there or fantasising. May look for some kind of 3rd party counseling and have told my boss. Need to read more of the wiki. So far been reading the book your brain on porn. About halfway through, everything I've read makes sense and it was the book that pointed me here.

A bit concerned about TV shows as I like GoT but that can be a bit explicit. Having said that it doesn't start for another couple of months so I'll see how I'm going.

Also thinking about dropping social media (Facebook mainly)

Thanks for reading

 

Great!

 

A bit too late but taking this in earnest till August