semen leakage during reboot deemed as failure?

Hello guys,

If I could make it till 31 March, then I would be successfully completing 90 day reboot process. But, what's bothering me currently is the leaks I'm getting either as wet dreams or during urination once in a while. I anyhow not taking these wet dreams into account for NoFap failure but the drop(s) I find while urinating when I'm consciously awake, it's sending me signals indicating that I'm getting too hard on myself and should rather just jerk off this time by not taking the challenge too seriously.

By the way, in this rebooting phase, I'm finding it awesome while speaking with women over phone in a casual/official conversation where I'm feeling like I'm having a coitus hearing to the chick's voice. The erections are lot impressive and what's more fascinating is the "feelers" of size increase. Haven't measured it though, for I, fear a relapse measuring it.

So, is this all normal during rebooting phase of observing 90 days abstinence? Should I enforce even stricter rules on the counter such as not "chatting/talking with girls","edging within safer zone" and so on just to stay on course more firmly?

Thank you.

 

Feeling bit relieved that it's not a failure. But is there not a better way to replace it than letting it go through wet dreams or while urinating? Some say to adopt strict celibacy to channelize it in a whole newer direction. And also, is there any age limit in fluid production? Is it true that your high testosterone levels drop as you age? As some say, having it high is a good sign as they are the one's who are highly sexed natured people that enables them to become great achievers in their own chosen field through art of sex transmutation.

 

Thank you for the suggestions. Will try to stop edging/intentional erections for a feel good factor. But, should I count it as failure if I'm voluntarily hardening myself in a safe zone? i.e. without putting a hand on it and just feel the hardness?

 

I think it is "YOU!" who eventually decides whether to reset or not, whether to even partake in a challenge or not. If the thing you do isn't a bothering thing in your life then there's certainly no need to take on a challenge nor bother at all about resetting it. Depends entirely on the person so to speak.