Semen Retention is bullshit, emissions are inevitable

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by MONSTER MONK, Mar 14, 2019.

  1. TheRetainer

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    At the busiest time of my life in my teens and twenties between 1-3 times a day. Just solo using mental fantasy of normal boring sex with girls I’ve actually had sex with. Just reliving past encounters.

    I’m 38 since the age of like 30 I sort of realised what it does to me and cut down. Orgasming 1-3 times a week either masturbating or having sex if I have a girlfriend.

    im newly single and determined to do a long term retain to see if I can beat my depression anxiety. Not really bothered if I can’t have sex any more I’m over it, it would be nice. But my moods hold my whole life back.

    I’m on day 13 hard mode crippling symptoms last few days. Nausea, mood swings, anxiety. But also a few moments of strong voice confidence.

    I appear to be getting all the Nofap symptoms having never been a fapper.

    makes me question the whole porn thing. Sure it encourages and fuels more orgasms. But I believe it’s the orgasm frequency that’s the problem.
     
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  2. MONSTER MONK

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    Ofcourse you're never gonna have a nocturnal emission if you ejaculate so often. That's the very premise of my post here.
    Nocturnal emissions DURING No PMO. Not when you're already blowing your nectar everywhere.
     
  3. MONSTER MONK

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    3rd on Day 81
    Doing kegels before going to sleep might have something to do with emissions since thats what I did the last two times. Maybe it leaves the pc muscle tightened which causes contractions at night?
    Dreams have been crazy random.
    Emission was without a sexual dream.
    But am having random teasing dreams focused around breasts lol.
     
  4. TheRetainer

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    well, I’ve had streaks of up to 50 days with no emissions.

    I’m on day 14 atm, had a little sex dream the other night but no emissions yet.
     
  5. MONSTER MONK

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    4th on day 92 (didn't feel like an O. Just felt like cleaning the pipe works)
     
  6. TheRetainer

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    Day 25 hard mode. No night time emissions.
     
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  7. MONSTER MONK man, you do it waaay to often. 3rd time in a month you start to simulate a conscious orgasmic ejaculation...
    you're also kind hyperactive. The change in the bodymind has to be deep that you're literally like another person. permanently. That kind of deep mental change, changes or transforms the body too.
    EDIT: So I know just calling out my observation of you being hyperactive isn't much and I'm not sure what advice to give for that :D could try some hardcore meditation program combined with exercise, I don't know. But that is what I observe in the gods of nofap. VERY grounded. Not just a massive sheath of power but also effortlessly grounding and activating that power at will, if you catch me


    It's christian, gnostic and just anything out there! ! ! !

    BUT they all say to practice other stuff. Some kind of mental focus at a Minimum. So the term "semen retention" has NOTHING to do with our ancestors. It's purely a recently invented idea.
     
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  8. Jack@18

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    Hello everyone.
    Does seamen retention cure erectile dysfunction???
     
  9. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    I think your right, I have seen the same effects as you age. The penis main function besides to excrete urine is to help with procreation. I believe the male body was designed to create offspring if you wanted to in your early years then take care and educated your offspring so that he/she can take care of you as you get old and die. During that process I think it is possible that we really were not meant to use our dicks as amusement parks and ejaculate a truck load of semen for the fun of it since it does takes the body effort to make such a beautiful fluid. Yeah semen is gross and icky looking like snot but you have to admit that semen have the power to give life when combined to an egg also all the nutrients it has.Semen is not just slimmy water. IT make sense as well why as we age Nocturnal emissions die down as well. I know a lot of us do not want to admit it because it feels so good to masturbate and shoot our semen but then after that is done your back to feeling the same and its a never ending cycle vs. retaining semen, you feel so young and vibrant and can focus better. To be honest I am not one to say what is wrong and what is good but from my personal experience I wish I can retain my semen, have wet dreams once in a while and just enjoy what life has for me since we only live once. I think life has much to offer than to focus too much on sexuality. I also wish I have never seen porn or did my first jack off. These are things we can not take back but we learn. Unfortunately I hope one day my kids will never fall for these since it really does nothing for you but just screw you up but it sucks cause it feels good and you get hooked on it.
     
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  10. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    I agree with Monk, I read a couple guys wanting to wear chastity cage at night to avoid wet dreams, the only thing the cage is going to do is stop you from masturbating since its not gonna let you get fully hard but to ejaculate you really dont need your dick to be hard for that. You can cum soft as well. Hey to each their own, you do what makes you believe but to be honest if your genetically program to release semen, its gonna happen bro. Some have them more frequent than others just like not every guy ejaculates the same. Every semen is unique. Guys you can't compare yourselves as every dick and semen is equal, it not, just like your finger prints. You can avoid sexual images but when its time to release you will cum just dreaming about butterflies. If you believe your semen is sacred and has all these powers therefore you want to retain it and not give it to any woman or man, that is fine as long that is helping you to avoid porn and masturbating then do what ever works for you. I guess embrace your semen. Just remember you will have to one day give your semen to that right person that wants it though. You can't hold it in forever unless you want to be celibate. For those that hate wet dreams because your on "semen retention" you are still retaining its just old semen you released that is no good, your swimmers can't swim anymore, lol. If your lucky probably your body will reabsorb it like you if you ate your own nut, lol, instead of waking to your underwear full of cream. I think you guys just need to focus on not touching yourself and avoid porn and embrace what ever mother nature intended exclusively for your male body. That's my two cents.
     
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  11. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    Does not cure, but it helps. Your reproductive organs sends a signal to your brain that there is sperm backed up and needs to release it. So you will get erections and your libido increases. But if it don't then there is a medical problem or psychological.
     
  12. MONSTER MONK

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    Forgot to update the greatest thread under the Retention heading.

    6th on Day 107
    7th on Day 110
    The reason for above 2 was sleeping on a full stomach, it was Ramadan and shoving your face with food before the fast can happen sometimes (alright, most of the time) but I slept right away and that was the mistake.

    8th on Day 139
    Didn't even feel anything until I woke up to find my pants were wet with the stuff.
     
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    Talk about determination! You just won't let this thread die aren't you? I respect that
     
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  14. Hi MM,
    I believe that the key is to intelligently leave the body alone. Nocturnal emissions are inevitable if one is not engaged in sexual activity. You are quite right about the supernatural effects of semen retention. I agree that there are no such effects.
    However every living organism's primary function is to reproduce. Ergo the body will provide the best materials it can for this purpose. By constantly ejaculating we put the body under great strain. It will attempt to replenish its reproductive fluids. To the detriment of other essential functions.
    All aspects of health, physical and mental, will suffer. Yet if we refrain from PMO and restrain our sexual activities much benefit will be attained.

    For example better self esteem, more energy and less nervous tension. All this because we are letting our bodies regulate themselves. Which is anything but supernatural. It is purely natural which cannot be improved upon!

    Take care pal and good luck!
     
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    Dexter,

    I love your reply. The body may be miraculous, but we humans simply allowing it to work NATURALLY can be amazing to watch. You point out the proper way to thing on this topic beautifully.

    As for me, I'd say we are created Supernaturally. But WE can only behave naturally. And if we learn to appreciate it, that's a tremendous thing.
     
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  16. thinking_differently

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    @MONSTER MONK
    Isn’t the whole idea supposed to be as follows:
    Retain from Conscious Ejaculation by M. Ejaculation during intercourse may be permitted. Nocturnal Emissions can’t really be controlled ig.
     
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  17. MONSTER MONK

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    Just add that the seed doesn't give you superpowers, and you've pretty much summed it up.
     
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    It doesn’t. It helps you to revive the existing powers you lost due to fapping.
    Talking About Objectively the intensity of the ‘powers’ dosen’t make sense, but you perform RELATIVELY better.
     
  19. HellDevil69

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    My case is somewhat different , when I abstain totally from porn or any kind of sexual triggers for some days I have wet dreams many times ..day after day

    On the other hand ..if I watch some sexual stuff or anythy . I don't have wet dreams . I have gone to sleep after 4hrs of watching porn but didn't had any wet dream , whereas sleeping with no sexual thoughts during the day I had wet dream

    Can anyone explain this.?
     

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