Semen Retention is bullshit, emissions are inevitable

I am 34 have been trying to avoid wet deams foe the past 10 years trust me it is next to impossible, it just cum's out one way or the other. It is like it always finds a excuse to cum in sleep. Most of the time it is during the deep sleep time when we get auto erection the mind start thinking about weird stuff and does it without even a slithest of tuch to it. Wow.
I have tried covering my dick wearing double clothes, wearing condom and sleeping all kind of weird stuff but it just comes out when it has to. I don't understand people who never had wet dreams either they mastrubate or had sex or they would be eating way too less(which is obvious they don't have energy to make fluid frequently) if not wet dreams are bound to happen, only way to control as I see is eating way lesser and spending all your energy doing other activities

 

This is true. Thnx!

 

Now I am close to 1 year abstinence, I have to say nocturnal emission is inevitable. Advices from the author are good, and they helped me reduce the frequency, but it still happens.

 

For me not yet. Wood and pre-nut only…thus far

 

If you transmute the semen then nocturnal emissions are not inevitable.

 

What’s your procedure to transmute?

 

I use a breathing method, along with psychological work. If you’re in a relationship then making love without ejaculating helps too. Let me know if you need more info.

 

Not in a relationship. Would like help with breathing method

 

I meditate on daily basis, and I think it helps me build up this streak, which is the longest ever. As for tramutation, I personally have a lot doubts on it. I am not a religious person, but I read many articles from Buddhism practitioners on this topic. In the Mahayana school, semen transmute isn’t a thing they practice. However, I know tantric and Taoism practitioners would do it, but I just simply don’t think it’s the goal for me……

 

I tried Icewarrior’s suggestion on breathing. Since I am a Christian, I kind of removed the humming and sounds that go with eastern meditation… And I don’t pay a whole lot of attention to chakra… But I did find that breathing it up from the lower region into the head and on does seem to work… At least for me… At any rate I will continue on my path to semen retention. I think the most important thing is to find what works for each individual in this battle… Supporting each other even though we might have different ways of reaching the goal

 

I personally have experienced huge improvements in productivity on semen retention. The less oriented I am towards sex, the more I am able to accomplish. I would say that the improvements towards mental prowess are attributed not to semen retention but to abstinence from lust in general, the absence of strong desire, whether it be sexual or what have you. To contrast my programming prowess before and after semen retention, it's a remarkable improvement, perhaps no one can be superhuman, but I've dramatically improved. I started off talking in word salads, diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic, to launching my own company making space simulations games, entirely self-taught in a matter of less than 5 years. Not everything can be attributed to semen retention, also dieting, gluten free dairy free, limited caffiene intake, eating garlic and tumeric, vitamin B complex, Vitamin D and Omega 3's.

 

My experience with breathing meditation is simple. Just sit comfortably and focus on your breath. Nothing more, nothing less. As I am not practicing it in religious way, so I don’t pay attention to things such as chakra, humming etc. It helps a lot once you form a routine. To me it’s the most relaxing time of my day.

 

Thanks dude. Same here

 

Thanks for your thoughts. After many years of meditating I came across the information that transmutation of sexual energy is what provides us with the extra power to have our egos dissolved. You might want to research why Mahayana etc doesn’t include this in their practice (and also modern Christianity). Their is a deep well of power we can use!

 

I had a 31 day streak and no nocturnal emission. I relapsed and am now on day 21. During this second steak I’ve had 2 very erotic dreams during which I orgasm Ed/ejaculated in the dream…I immediately awoke and checked—not even a drop…so no emission for me…I did have one instance when I awoke with wood and did have a good amount of pre nut but nothing more.

 

If i try not to think about sex i'll dream it. Two or three nights it happened one after another, but without emissions.
I gues porn is coming out of the brain and it manifests again.
The best advice regarding semen retention and trasnsmuting it i've heard is: it doesn't come with simply abstaining. You have to do something to make it happen too.
Simple anstaining without doing nothing will lead to these kinds of dreams/excitations.
The kind of exercises to make that transmutation happen are taught to monks.
One way to transmute is to involve in creativity - lady gaga stated that she could not have sex otherwise her creativity will worn out.
I'm quitting porn but i think not masturbation, for now..

 

To reboot you have to give up PMO. But then again I don’t know what your situation is… I never have emissions. I have had dreams where I orgasm in the dream… But then nothing for real

 

In my dreams i took the girl, laid her down with strong energy and tried to put it in, then it stopped.. did you feel the orgasm like sensation?? I'm lucky that by dreaming of peeing yesterday i've not done so in the bed
My situation is that with excitement my imagination goes wild and desire shows up in dreams.
Watched porn till two days ago and now i want to stop that.
I don't know if there is the necessary activity or ambience to support abstaining from masturbation.
Like when i feel excitation, not to do anything about it and let it come and go.. i want pleasure