SEMEN RETENTION - separates the man from the drones -

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  1. F328

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    Just know a relationship will have sex you will loose semen it’s what you do with your new mindset ? That’s the point and your missing the whole freaking point ! NoFap is just the door that open you up to a new way , of thinking man ! Use your new time energy resources etc to creat a desired mindset one that doesn’t give a crap about semen retention and instead think about how you will be the best boy friend man human being possible !! You gotta open your mind
     
  2. eoptda

    eoptda Fapstronaut

    once in a while its fine to o but even with a woman if you do it excessively it will drain you. but sex doesnt mean that you have to cum by any means. if it happens, enjoy it and all, dont feel bad about it, but also dont make it a goal in the first place.

    rEaL rElAtIoN ShIp ReAl pRoBlEmS yeah and you do lose real sperm cells and real nutrients and what not and it will take your body real energy/stuff to build it back. semen retention doesnt mean you dont have sex. get off of the idea porn has installed in you of what sex is.

    where do you think the energy comes from? just not watching something? so you dont open your eyes anymore or what? from not touching your dick? so you dont move now either? the point is to not waste your sperm. of course its not like if you cum once, youll go suddenly back to day 1 or something, but it doesnt mean you cant overdo it. and again - semen retention doesnt mean you dont or cant have sex, thats the point youre missing yourself

    if a guy suddenly got his finger cut off, would you also tell him to not give a crap? that it is still ok and he can still do everything he couldve before? what if he loses another one? and another? and them another till theres none left? just because semen is seemingly easily renewable doesnt make it any less a part of your body. its still your cells and your minerals etc. and your body will do what it has to to make up for the losses.

    "Use the energy and resources you gained from not wasting your sperm to create a mindset inwhich you don't care about losing your sperm anymore!" that certainly is a mind opener.
     
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  3. F328

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    Lol the sex I’m talking about is around 4 times a month lol not every day 31 days a month ...dude if you have sex healthy sex a handful of times that’s fine
     
  4. F328

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    You can lose anything if you have healthy sex sure you might lose some sperm lol but if that’s what it takes for all your drive to be over you seriously need some mental toughness
     
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  5. F328

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    Not trying to put any one down but semen retention is ok and will happen in a healthy relationship unless your girl wants sex 24/7 or your a player busting nuts every week or more
     
  6. F328

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    I’ll look into semen retention because I don’t know too much about it it’s a good idea that you wondering what to do once you have all these gain but don’t wanna lose it , I would love to not lose any energy as well as I train super hard in the gym and life career family etc I’ll be open to learn about sex with out ejaculation as well thanks
     
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  7. eoptda

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    yeah but what i meant is that you can also have it every day (if you and she wants to) without even ejaculating once

    thats like saying if i ran a marathon and after finishing my body felt weak and tired, you'd tell me to run another one in 10 minutes and if i cant do it then i need some menthal toughness. losing sperm is something that happens physically, not just sth in your head

    or you can learn to control your body and have sex without busting a nut

    :D
     
  8. Thanks for opinions guys.

    Im sure real sex with a O which comes from a place of love has also some benefits. You exchange your sperm for something you CANT get from a retention alone.

    Its not that one sided.

    Moderation is a key as always in life.

    Golden middle path IS ALWAYS THE BEST.

    Never orgasming is a extreme.
    Orgasming all the time is extreme as well.
     
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  9. Thanks for the words of encouragement. I hope someday soon I’ll have some romance with a beautiful woman again and make somebody happy. My only problem is over coming shyness and the ability to attract woman at the moment. Woman don’t tend to treat me or see my inner strength that I lay out every day. I hope to break threw this.
     
  10. eoptda

    eoptda Fapstronaut

    never orgasming without ever ejaculating (aside from the cases where you want to make kids) is not extreme by any means. you can have sex/orgasm without shooting your load out, it takes practice to do it though.
     
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  11. You don't need O except for making kids, that's the lesson to be learned.

    Your O is also a way for a woman to control you. If you do not O, you're automatically in a better position in any short or long-term relationship. Because you are in self control then instead. Think about it.

    Also there is still the no sex before marriage stance available, which relieves you from intercourse for quite a while.
     
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  12. So.. how long have u practiced 100% strict semen retention and how many dry orgasms with a woman u had during the time. What is the opinion of your woman towards it.

    I just dont want to waste my time on someone who is all theory and no praxis, thanks for understanding.
     
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  13. Have u tryed to mate with a hot woman u love after 4 months of hard mode? How did the no ejaculation go for you?
     
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  14. Currently I'm just two months into "hard mode" and I'm successfully exercising self control with a hot woman, who is off limits for me as a Christian. I don't consider "mating" just because the flesh got inflamed. This separates men from the drones, as OP said.
     
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  15. eoptda

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    well its not about practicing strict semen retention (although that is the reason/goal of it essentially), rather how to control your body (and also mind) during the act. though its very easy to go over the edge while doing it, especially if youre trying to force reaching it. with woman ive managed to do it a couple times, after once managing to do it alone. i cant seem to be able to reproduce it whenever im m'ing and fantasazing about literally anything as it will always (at least has to this point) bring me over the edge. managing to do it with using porn is for me out of the question.

    i never really asked her at that time, nor i was 100% successful with it - as i said, its hella easy to go over the edge. i back then i wasnt confident enough to talk about it as it wasnt something that i had mastered to do (neither have i at the moment, all i was saying here is that you CAN have orgasms without ejaculating (for me they are even more intense and go through the whole body instead of only the stimulated parts)), and it wouldve made everything just awkward. but in general, i doubt that any woman would take it as something negative, as it is still pleasurable for her in return. the times i managed to reach it, i was still able to continue and after the times in which i didnt necessarily reach it, but still didnt cum - i didnt have the feeling of being drained afterwards and the next day felt much better (which is obviously also a good thing for her) as it usually does after a night where i went over the edge.

    the times i have succeeded were all for most part those where i didnt even think about trying to reach it, but instead just focused on enjoying the sensations i had at that moment and appreciated that im there and that the other person is there (the one time i managed to do it alone i just had some relaxing music on, i didnt think about anything or anyone, just was focued on myself and how my body felt while being in a pretty good mood in general).
     
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  16. Powerous

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    That is very true bro. Jing energy. Sexual transmutation. Chi energy. All comes from preserving our vital energy (Semen).
    So many religions, cultures and successful people talk about this.
     
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  17. F328

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    I feel like if semen retention is helping then practice that I’m not in a
    im seeing results of semen retention but feel insecure now about intimate relationships in my future and how sex life will be I haven’t had time to do the research yet but I’m guessing its sex with out O, ? And are you seeking some climax ? Besides O is there something at the end I know someone mentioned O without semen that’s interesting so I’m asking is how to i O without semen releasing ? This topic is got my attention as Iam noticing a big difference in a week of semen retention and would like to keep my gains bro ..thanks
     
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  18. Ive been thinking about it... its about ones personal goals.

    One of my major goals in NoFap was to get rid of pied and be able to have normal sex with woman.

    With my prev gf I was not able to cum inside her, no way... I was glad that after 3 months hard mode and one month of trying I was able to penetrate her, and that was a major achievement for me, as I had pied all my life.

    Its called delayed ejaculation I guess, and I had it delayed ad infinity. I was eventually able to finish by oral.

    Function wise, this way, I cant have kids... so its not good and normal.

    I will be very happy, If I will be able to finish inside my new girl, and Ive made my best to reach that goal, by abstaining hard mode for almost 5 months now. Plus I was able to actually get a beautiful woman, create a working relationship with her, and had a agreement to take it slowly. 1st time in my life. This will be completely different than my previous experiences, and again, Im proud I made it so.

    So my goal does not include infinite semen retention. My goal is to be able to finish inside a woman.

    When this becomes a reality, I can take another step
     
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  19. stoneyman22

    stoneyman22 Fapstronaut

    yaaaaaaa smoke everyday
     
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