Semen retention while having sex?

Is it possible to still have satisfying sex but without orgasm/ejaculation? I've read about guys saying you can orgasm yet not ejaculate, but I have no idea how that works, and I doubt if it's even real, or if it's real I doubt that it's healthy. So I suppose it's possible to just basically edge with a vagina, occassionally? I think I recall seeing this in the movie Raging Bull, where he's preparing for a fight so he doesn't want to ejaculate, so he's having sex or getting a bj, but when he's almost there he stops then pours ice on his crotch lol. Any ideas? Or is abstinence the only choice?

 

People have always wanted sex, this is why it shows up in ancient "holy" books, "pulling out" even shows up in the bible - 'holy' is in parenthesis because such books are actually political papers, although occasionally also primitive science. The great twist of the sexual revolution is that they dealt with this problem in a unique way, and wound up creating an even greater problem. You underestimate how structured the past was, and how segregated people were, as women took pride in rejecting suitors who were not part of their society, but the only way to learn about this is to read old letters; so, most men didn't need to exercise much control, as the culture kept most of them in line, their choices were limited. You also haven't considered the popularity of wh-re houses in the 1800s. Controlling men with sex is an ancient technique, the concept of having sex only until after marriage is designed to accomplish just that, invented to control the flow of wealth and property across generations.

Even though I write this I still agree that it is in a man's best interest to limit ejaculation and sexual arousal, and never masturbate either to porn, imagination, women's underwear, or any other variation thereof. Yet we must know about these things so our opponents can't use them against us in arguments.

One thing I've wondered about occasionally is: How attractive were women of the past? I say definitely not as attractive as they are now. Without indoor plumbing, showers, deodorant, make-up, cosmetics, plastic surgery, gyms, tight jeans. The women of the past were also exposed to the elements and had to do more physical labour, which roughened their appearance and aged them. They married young and had many kids back to back, so by the time they were in their late twenties, hell maybe even mid twenties, they wouldn't have been pretty any more.