Sent a stupid text to some girls! Help!

Kai101

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Hey guys. As the title says, I was being stupid and sent a screenshot of my name om urban dictionary to a couple of my friends who are girls. Ive attsched a screenshot of it to here. Anyway, I thought it would be funny, but it says stuff about me being a nice and caring boyfriend, making friends with your friends, etc. These two friends of mine already have boyfriends though! I sent this on Friday, and today's Sunday, and they haven't responded. I've been anxious about it the whole weekend because I think I creeped them out. I see them tomorrow, and I don't know what to say to them. I sent the text because I thought it would be funny, but now it looks like I'm hitting on them. I'm at a loss for what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
 

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I've been anxious about it the whole weekend because I think I creeped them out. I see them tomorrow, and I don't know what to say to them. I sent the text because I thought it would be funny, but now it looks like I'm hitting on them. I'm at a loss for what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Actually if a girl would send me something like that it would creep me out to. It is not funny (I read it all), it is more like trying to prove (show) how great you are and how great catch you are in some very needy way that is not attractive at all. Remember actions are important not the words.

I would recommend try to save it by posting also meaning of their names on urban dictionary with sth like "haha your meanings are even more bullshit than mine (who write those things??)".
I am not sure if that save the situation, but at least it will seems more like a joke, less awkward, less like proving how great you are. They even might reply to it and if they dont, just dont mention it at all when you see them, take it as a joke they did not understand, so no need to get back to it and focus on moving forward.
 
Actually if a girl would send me something like that it would creep me out to. It is not funny (I read it all), it is more like trying to prove (show) how great you are and how great catch you are in some very needy way that is not attractive at all. Remember actions are important not the words.

I would recommend try to save it by posting also meaning of their names on urban dictionary with sth like "haha your meanings are even more bullshit than mine (who write those things??)".
I am not sure if that save the situation, but at least it will seems more like a joke, less awkward, less like proving how great you are. They even might reply to it and if they dont, just dont mention it at all when you see them, take it as a joke they did not understand, so no need to get back to it and focus on moving forward.
One of the girls said that I had a nice body, so I just thought it was funny that my name meant that too
 
Hey guys. As the title says, I was being stupid and sent a screenshot of my name om urban dictionary to a couple of my friends who are girls. Ive attsched a screenshot of it to here. Anyway, I thought it would be funny, but it says stuff about me being a nice and caring boyfriend, making friends with your friends, etc. These two friends of mine already have boyfriends though! I sent this on Friday, and today's Sunday, and they haven't responded. I've been anxious about it the whole weekend because I think I creeped them out. I see them tomorrow, and I don't know what to say to them. I sent the text because I thought it would be funny, but now it looks like I'm hitting on them. I'm at a loss for what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

don't worry , if they don't understand then they don't have a sense of humour
 
I agree with @Wave Surfer this doesn’t really belong here.

That’s being said, you know as well as I do that you didn’t just send it to these girls as “a joke”. You are trying to make yourself seem cool and better than their boyfriends. Or whatever. Obviously this is the case because you are so hung up on it. And also...you only sent this “joke” to these two women. Your targets. You didn’t send it to you guy friends. You didn’t include their boyfriends in the text (which I would assume you would have to know because you have no reason to be talking with these girls if you aren’t a circle of friends). Think about your actions. Look at yourself. You’re on this forum for a reason.
 
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