@IGY Since when is prostate massage a sexual act? This is a common therapeutic treatment for chronic prostatitis. I suggest a quick webmd search for prostatitis. I would provide a link but apparently I'm not allowed to do so since I finally signed up just yesterday. Vasocongestion or blue balls weren't the only possibility for the discomfort in my testes. She explained that the sperm backup could have triggered a prostate infection, which I have a history of and she offered relief. Apparently it worked because I feel much better. I did ejaculate, which is why I reset my counter, but believe me, a finger in my anus is not what I look for in a sexual act. Lol.