can you please help me review the Boundaries I’ve come up with for supporting my partner and his addiction: Personal Boundaries: I will not re-traumatise myself I will not indulge low self esteem thoughts I have after slips. I will try to handle your slips with love and enthusiasm as much as I can. Our Relational Boundaries: I will commit to supporting your desired plan (PMO or PM etc) whilst you are making progress and boundaries are not broken. Whilst you are working on your recovery, when you break a boundary or act out in your addiction & hide it from me, I will ask you to sleep in the spare room . If you cannot work toward understanding how your addiction or how it has hurt me, and if you continue to excuse your behavior, I will move toward separation from you. Boundaries for Addict: NO technology EVER in the bedroom. Tell me within 24 hours of any slips Working away - look at alternative technology & phone devices to watch entertainment on.