Seven months on Hard Mode + my tips

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by mv8652, May 18, 2016.

  1. 20 days in and all I wanna say is Alhamdullilah
     
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  2. nopenotdoinit!

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    Great tips and a great story. You truly are a nofap success story. Good luck with the full year. It seem you have the right mentality to achieve that magnificent goal.
     
  3. iHappy

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    Great tips really. I am going to copy them to mine journal and keep for easy access.
     
  4. bmzb

    bmzb New Fapstronaut

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    @mv8652 Thank you so much for your tips! It's very helpful. I liked what you said about relaxing with urges instead of fighting them.
     
  5. mv8652

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    Yes, since the sex drive is a natural and important part of life, there will always be urges. Therefore, we must learn how to manage them. If we flee from them, how can we learn that? Every urge experienced and not indulged is a successful lesson and a victory. Monday will make nine months for me. I still get horny and feel like I want release, but it passes on by, as insignificant as a passing cloud. Nobody ever died from an unsatisfied urge, but nobody ever learned to swim in the absence of water.
     
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  6. BrianHM

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    Its all in the process, one brick everyday, will lead to a fully constructed structure over a span of few years. Thank you for sharing this message.
     
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  7. seadoo54

    seadoo54 Fapstronaut

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    Inspiring ! Can you give us a little background on your life ? Are you a young man ? dating & marriage in your future ? You sound like grounded person ready for that step .
     
  8. Mybestlife

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    Your original post was exactly what I needed to read right now. You must be an amazing AP.
     
  9. If you can go hard mode for 7 months,so can I.I have fully committed myself to go on hard mode from today.I will stay that way until I enter a relationship.Keep going bro,life is not only about sex,masturbation and porn.Life is about living.
     
  10. Mybestlife

    Mybestlife Fapstronaut

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    I keep coming back to this. Such a great post.

     
  11. SnowWhite

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    Thanks for saying this. Actualls, this is the keynote. I quit because I want to get more out my life. I quit because I want to reach my goals. I quit because life feels so much better without fapping then with fapping.

    During all my streaks, I always hold my goals above me like a lodestar. Quitting is really hard, it goes in a cycle, but I clearly feel that there is progress. Meanwhile, daily depressions and fears are gone. These are big steps I reached, and more will come. Therefore, never give up.
     
  12. FURPY

    FURPY Fapstronaut

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    VERY GOOD READING
     
  13. pancakehead70

    pancakehead70 Fapstronaut

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    Great post, very inspirational.
     
  14. FURPY

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    Do you feel as though you are still progressing?....like, do you feel like you are stepping into a new realm, or something like that?...does you consciousness expand to higher levels?....do you see problems as something that can be solved easily? Am I full of questions?
     
  15. NobleKid

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    Great tips, really happy for you man! Keep going and be alert always!!!
     
  16. SnowWhite

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    Yes, there is progress, clearly and definitively. For example, my biggest achievement is that I overcame depressions. It was with my for 25 years, but since one year, it is gone, and I 'm sure it is now finally a thing of the past.

    Also, I'm progressing with PMO. However, this goes in episodes. You know - streaks of 2-5 weeks, but then a relapse - and so on. But there is progress, I'm much better in pursuing my own projects, much more relaxed and cooler. So there is progress. Just never give up. Be confident.
     
  17. FURPY

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    Good for you, Snow....it is an up hill climb to the top of your dreams....where is the top?...does it finally hit you?...I'm at the top, or does it become better with no end, until you reach the end of your life?...but the end is just the beginning....so to speak...your seed is life....it gives life...if you keep it inside you, do you feel it growing?....kind of like rebirth?....I ask because I am not sure where this is taking me...there is struggle at times where I lose faith in what I'm doing...
     
  18. max marcus

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    I really love this section on this site! Your words of advice really motivate me. I like the part when you say we need excitement. To me, we can keep the excitement alive by having a community supporting one same thing. Thanks!
     
  19. mv8652

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    Update on this thread: Today, I pass ten months on Hard Mode. I have no doubts whatsoever that I'll make my one-year goal. At this point, it's easy. I'm so accustomed to fapstinence that actually masturbating doesn't seriously enter my mind as an option, even when I feel horny.
     
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  20. Trying2Not

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    This one "While momentarily straying off-course delays one's arrival at his destination, it doesn't send him back to his point of origin. "
    Awesome. Truly motivational.
     

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