Severe PIED but I managed to have sex with pills

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ThomasTheCat, Apr 10, 2020.

  1. ThomasTheCat

    ThomasTheCat Fapstronaut

    125
    100
    43
    Yesterday I finally had sex and I realized that my problem is in fact PIED

    I was a little anxious because of the venous leak and the fact that I didn't have "morning woods" for a long time.

    So I decided to see if my organ still worked.

    A friend with benefits called me over to her house, I took a "dick pill" to see if my penis worked and I managed to have sex twice, with an incredible erection.

    Because of the medicine's effect, today I woke up with a "morning wood".

    The point is that I think my PIED problem is extremely severe and that it may take years to heal. I feel it will be a long time before I have this "natural libido" I had in my 17/18 years.

    My urologist told me to take tadalafil 7 mg for a while and I saw some studies that chronic use of this medication can be beneficial for penis health. What do you think?

    I honestly don't believe that I wouldn't be able to have sex without "dick pills" and I'm already starting to accept that fact as "my destiny" (although it frustrates me at some point).
     
    OhWhenThe likes this.
  2. marekasap

    marekasap Fapstronaut

    I'm not a doctor and can't tell.

    I hope rejcting porn and excessive masturbation will help to cure PIED. I feel your pain since i had the same issues. Ive been trying to have sex for a week, every day another try and my GF was very supportive and patient. Finally it worked... but crucial thing is to stop watching porn, detach from it. I'm on my day 30 and already see some little light in the tunnel. Morning wood from time to time is coming back. I also had few nice erections during sex at 90% level but i also had flatlines during thath period and could not have sex couple of times.

    you are 164 days with no porn and i hope you recover quick. Perhaps its also anxiety and nervous from all your inner thoughts (is it gonna get hard?) which is self destructing. Every time when i start overthinking "is it hard enough" " is it gonna last more than 1 minute" "is it getting weak?" then its self made prophecy and gets weak, erection is gone. Perhaps you should try couple of times and it might finally work out as in mine case. Just don't give up and believe in yourself.

    Try also kegels exercise i read a lot positive feedbacks for PIED related topics.
     
    ThomasTheCat likes this.
  3. Lion's Roar

    Lion's Roar Fapstronaut

    79
    119
    33
    I think you should have a healthy view on sex. It will help if you discard all excessive desires of women.

    Sex is just for bearing children.
     
    ThomasTheCat likes this.
  4. watermellon28

    watermellon28 Fapstronaut

    32
    25
    18
    How old are you?

    Also, how comfortable are you around this friend with benefits? because if you feel really uncomfortable that could also interrupt you getting wood
     
    ThomasTheCat likes this.
  5. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

    707
    631
    93
    If you have sex it'll likely replace the need for porn. Keep going brother
     
    ThomasTheCat likes this.
  6. ThomasTheCat

    ThomasTheCat Fapstronaut

    125
    100
    43
    Thanks for your asnwer! Im about to see a pelvic floor speacialist bc I do think that I have problems in that area. I have problems to start to piss and aswell pain in the bladder. I do have problems with overthinking so I think my ED problem is indeed multi-factorial, that sucks a lot. Thanks for your advices and congrats for your achievements.
     
  7. ThomasTheCat

    ThomasTheCat Fapstronaut

    125
    100
    43
    Thanks! Im starting to see little improvements. I think in one year I may be 90% cured.
     
  8. ThomasTheCat

    ThomasTheCat Fapstronaut

    125
    100
    43
    I am 30 years old. I am very confortable with her bc we know each other since we were 12
     
  9. ThomasTheCat

    ThomasTheCat Fapstronaut

    125
    100
    43
    I do think my view of sex isnt the healthier one. I apreciate your advice. But I do already have one children :D
     

Share This Page