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fox99

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Hello, 3 month ago I tried to have sex with my gf. But my erection didn't last and I couldn't penetrate her. I was disappointed in myself. After that about week she gave me blow job. It was great. I always fail when need to penetrate her or to put condom. Sorry on my bad english. I am on my 3rd day of hard mode. Need a lot of help. I am 20 and love her and don't won't to lose her right now. Before her, had some gf. Lost V with 16 and didn't have any problems.
 
I don't know how to fix your anxiety or difficulties with maintaining an erection, but I can tell you a rule that is crucial at maintaining any kind of relationship.

The rule is simple: Communicate.

Can't have sex with her? Explain to her why that is the case. Otherwise she might get self conacious and blame herself. She might think you don't find her attractive, or even that you don't like girls at all. If she is mature enough to be with you or anyone at all, she'll understand you and support you, but she can't do that if you don't communicate with her.

Good luck with your problem though.
 
ShadyPerson said:
I don't know how to fix your anxiety or difficulties with maintaining an erection, but I can tell you a rule that is crucial at maintaining any kind of relationship.

The rule is simple: Communicate.

Can't have sex with her? Explain to her why that is the case. Otherwise she might get self conacious and blame herself. She might think you don't find her attractive, or even that you don't like girls at all. If she is mature enough to be with you or anyone at all, she'll understand you and support you, but she can't do that if you don't communicate with her.

Good luck with your problem though.
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She support me all the time. But I can't understend why is she with me when I can't give her some beutiful time with my guy only with my tongue and fingers.... When I'm with her my guy is hard as rock. I tried to watch some pornography but zero to my erection. Maybe it's because I start to watch porn when I was kid. Then I had 7 or 8 years
 
Vulefox_18 said:
Hello, 3 month ago I tried to have sex with my gf. But my erection didn't last and I couldn't penetrate her. I was disappointed in myself. After that about week she gave me blow job. It was great. I always fail when need to penetrate her or to put condom. Sorry on my bad english. I am on my 3rd day of hard mode. Need a lot of help. I am 20 and love her and don't won't to lose her right now. Before her, had some gf. Lost V with 16 and didn't have any problems.
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Many young men now have difficulties keeping it up apparently. Maybe it has something to do with masturbating over pornography.
 
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