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Sex chat addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by RaindropDroptop, Jun 11, 2020.

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  1. RaindropDroptop

    RaindropDroptop Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys,


    I am 27 years old and I have started NoFap with 26. My record is 24 days. I relapse and start again and again. I am on the point that I don’t earn an extra energy boost. My energy level stagnates even if have relapsed and start NoFap from the beginning. It is disappointing to relapse always after 3-7 days. I want change and start to analyze the causes to lead me into a relapse. It is the social media!!! I cant leave it and my brain needs the fcking dopamine. I dominate the text game with girls and can easily have sex chat with them. And this point is so difficult for me to suppress my sexual needs.

    I have fears. I have fears that I could never be a potent man.
     
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  2. sinner76

    sinner76 Fapstronaut

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    On which sites exactly do you do sex chat? facebook? omegle?
    It think we should be able to block them if you tell me which sites exactly.
     
  3. RaindropDroptop

    RaindropDroptop Fapstronaut

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    Mostly on badoo and facebook
     
  4. sinner76

    sinner76 Fapstronaut

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    You could block that easily on windows using 2 apps called pluckeye and forticlient.
    For mobile, you would need spin browser, I have just checked it and badoo is blocked by spin browser. You would also need an app lock to lock other browsers.
    For facebook it's a bit complicated. For windows you may want to block images and videos on messenger.com using pluckeye revert button. For mobile, I think there are apps which allow you to login using your facebook account and allows only text chat. You could temporarily uninstall messenger from your mobile and use app lock to prevent reinstalling it till you find a real solution.
     
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  5. RaindropDroptop

    RaindropDroptop Fapstronaut

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    Is blocking these websites the only solution?
     
  6. sinner76

    sinner76 Fapstronaut

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    you want to stop visiting those sites. This will be hard when those sites are one click away. Blocking them will make the process much easier.
     
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  7. It sounds minimal, but blocking these types of sites has seen a massive boost for me personally. I use Blocksite as a Chrome Add-On and when you try to access those sites it loads up the blocksite page. This extra barrier to accessing is a massive help. It stops the sites being one click away as highlighted. You literally catch yourself in the act when it pops up and close it off immediately.

    I'm at a point now where Blocksite blocks all social media, Facebook, Instagram, Reddit (including all NSFW sub reddits). even Youtube is now blocked. I literally use my computer to use the Facebook Messenger website (don't have it on my phone, minimal apps to minimise distractions), watch NASCAR and access NoFap. It has helped me more by reducing every possible distraction to M.
     
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  8. sinner76

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    I think you would like to have more sophisticated apps which are more secure and allow more website access:
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...ower-an-aid-easy-streaks.272658/#post-2490733
     
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  10. sinner76

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    No problem man.
     
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  11. The stuff for smartphones is brilliant. Great post! I'm literally scraping through on my smart phone through like good will and self control. This will help at later stages
     
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  12. sinner76

    sinner76 Fapstronaut

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    We always need self control, without it we'll fail. But we must use whatever tools out there to help us achieve our goals.
    Thanks man. Glad you like it. I'm working on more tutorials. If you find something helpful, please share it!
     
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  13. I'll be sure too, disabled a lot of stuff on my Iphone and installed Spin. Great idea for a Web Browser!
     
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  14. sinner76

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    Take care it blocks youtube, so you may want to download youtube app.
     
    Last edited: Jun 11, 2020
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  15. Happy with Youtube being blocked, I waste an obscene amount of time there. It was another site I black listed for myself.
     
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  16. RaindropDroptop

    RaindropDroptop Fapstronaut

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    thanks guys, you helped me
     
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  17. Beetenen

    Beetenen New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the advices. I struggle a bit with not watching porn at all, so lately I've been chatting with live girls on webcams. I for example use live sex cam. There you are allowed to speak with models with your micro but not only chat.
     
    Last edited: May 31, 2021

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