Sex coach: ask your questions

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Tibo87, Aug 27, 2019.

  1. Tibo87

    Tibo87 Fapstronaut

    How have you been recently? Did you practice self-confidence?

    My pleasure. Make sure you stick to a strategy that works for you!
  2. greenishmoon

    greenishmoon Fapstronaut

    Hi dude, I've been off the site for a few weeks. I'll read what you posted now and answer later.


    Okay then, I've read your answer. Thank you. I will probably try it, I've found positive self talking really empowering.

    Also, as same as @FellatiousD , I've been having those questions and, while not being a virgin, I've started feeling like a complete stupid in sexual/emotional relationships. I would really like to feel close to someone right now, and my general way of seeing my sexual life is that I won't ever touch a woman sober again at least for the next 10 years. I feel like a total coward! This way of thinking may be the closest reason as for why it might end happening that way though, but I really don't know what to do, and starting inviting strangers on dates seems like the stupidest and the best idea at the same time. Kind of let go a lot of stuff right here :D
    Last edited: Sep 28, 2019
  3. Daedaleus

    Daedaleus Fapstronaut

    Saw the title and thought: "Oh God, nooooo" then I read OP and the thread and I wanted to thank you for giving great advice to the community here, keep up the great work!
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  4. tryhardbro1

    tryhardbro1 New Fapstronaut

    Im experiencing precum leakage from my penis when im not erect.
    Its not accompanied by any sensation but it just leaks
    Please Reply
  5. Hachiraya

    Hachiraya Fapstronaut

    Hey. What if I shoot it full?
  6. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

    I have this same problem and it doesn't take a whole lot of arousing to make it leak like a fire-hydrant. This issue has actually made me avoid many attractive women over the years since I fear I will start leaking if just standing next to them for a few minutes. I have no clue how I'm going to handle ever being in a relationship (since I feel like jizzing my pants from just holding hands) , even less a sexual one.
    It also feels like I get minor emissions as well if aroused long enough (like a mini-orgasm) which sometimes make me wonder if I am ever going to have a functioning sex-life or a sex-life at all.
    I honestly don't know who to talk with about these current fears and insecurities. It is nothing I would like to ventilate in a relationship either, at least not early on.
  7. tryhardbro1

    tryhardbro1 New Fapstronaut

    How many days have you been on NoFap?
  8. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

    Tomorrow (Wednesday) I will have reached 1000 days. I felt like I had this issue (with lots of prejizz) already before beginning the NoFap-journey, but felt after a few months that I produced even more of it than previously. It almost feels like having a handicap / disability of sorts because every time it starts pouring out, that sticky, slippery feeling makes me wanna run for the bathroom to wipe it off and if there is none nearby, I feel quite helpless to say the least.
  9. RQ7

    RQ7 Fapstronaut

    Reading those message make me want to have sex ahahaha next time I would read this before
  10. Rev2.0

    Rev2.0 Fapstronaut

    @Randy this is a really old thread but if you're still around, I'm 54 and, apart from a couple key differences in our stories, in much the same situation/struggle as you regarding an involuntarily sexless marriage and where do I go from here. Come back to here or on DM if you want to continue the convo.
  11. Randy

    Randy Fapstronaut

    Hey Rev,
    Strange you would reply now. I just got back to nofap after about a year away.
    After writing that I got together with my affair partner and we had lots of fun. Eventually I told my wife the truth. She freaked out and we almost got divorced. She decided to stay with me an I broke up with my affair partner. After my wife got over her anger, she had a sexual desire for me that she hadn't had in years. I was more honest with her than I'd ever been. In spite of her strong opposition to infidelity, she seems to find me more attractive when she knows I've been with other women. I went to my doctor, got tested for venerial diseases and got a prescription for Sildenafil (generic viagra). We started off having sex almost daily, sometimes with a pill, sometimes without. A year later we are having sex about once a week. Having an affair and telling my wife made my marriage better, but I'd never recommend it.
    Last edited: Nov 26, 2020
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  12. thisIsthelastDay

    thisIsthelastDay Fapstronaut

    Man I'm facing the same problem! This leakage thing is eating me alive. It's been almost 4 years i'm having this problem.
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  13. G1993

    G1993 Fapstronaut


    Couple of quick fire questions;
    1. How do you delay ejaculation to prolong intimacy for a guy?
    2. Tips to give her orgasm?
    3. Cure premature erectile dysfunction?

    thank you
  14. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

    It is terrible and for all those dudes who say "Man, I wish I had lots of prejizz" try to walk for a few days in my shoes and you will never wish to have large amounts of it again. All it takes is literally a minute or two of arousal to start leaking a lot and after five minutes, it feels like I'm about to jizz in my pants without even having touched my own D.
    This is the main reason as to why I don't go out with any women and it's creating huge barriers in my life. I can't even imagine myself ever having any kind of intercourse as the foreplay would probably be enough to make me jizz tons.
  15. Twizza

    Twizza Fapstronaut

    Stop P and M
  16. Twizza

    Twizza Fapstronaut

    I’m not sorry most times even when my girl wants me to apologize, the deep down I’m not sorry. And I’m starting to think this has been affecting my relationships from the past till now
  17. KingAbel

    KingAbel Fapstronaut

    Here goes my question, since I do not have sex, should I hold or sell what I have in bitcoin?
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  18. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

    Well, I haven't been P or M for over three years now, so clearly that can't be the problem. Still, I'm leaking semen and prejizz as a melting glacier and that from only a few minutes of being aroused. Many times, I have actually given up on having a sex-life at all.
    I might just as well go into a monastery, become a monk and live, meditate and die there as my D is causing me such issues from almost nothing. At least, that's a thought that has been coming back and forth over the past 2-3 years.
  19. {Ananta}

    {Ananta} Fapstronaut

    My Journal
    im in similar situation, i work in resturant an they are obessessed with hiring attractive females for waitress an cashiering im paranoid about exploding in my pants to, sometimes i rush away from them cause im paranoid i well explode in my pants, im forever going to the washroom an wipe some pre stuff off my , i dont mind it as i dont really remember being in suuch a stuation in my past pmo addict life, it usually goes away in i can presume a normal day thou,doesnt it calm down for you later or the nextday i ignore sexual thoughts or feelings thou
  20. PanteriMauzer

    PanteriMauzer Fapstronaut

    Having a 21cm dick is good right? Not too much big?
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