Sex dolls

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Gasdreamer, Jul 7, 2019.

  1. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    If sex dolls are better than masturbation, then the difference is marginal at best.

    If someone could use it a few times and be cured of porn addiction then it's fine, but I don't think that'll work for most people. A lot of people would just get addicted to their sex dolls. Some might start having sex with their dolls while watching porn.

    That partner isn't real though. It's training your brain to think a partner is just for sex. Better just to abstinent for a while, let your brain reboot, then find a real partner.
     
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  2. ultrafabber

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    No i mean psychologically they are not as bad because you have sex with something else, not yourself. I think masturbation is very damaging because of that aspect.
     
  3. TimeToQuitNow

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    I agree that masturbation is damaging because of that aspect. But having sex with something else isn't necessarily a good thing. What if someone had sex with an animal? It's having sex with something else, but is far worse than masturbation. I think you could agree withthat.

    I'm not saying a sex doll is as bad as bestiality. I'm just saying that just because your having sex with something that's not yourself, doesn't mean that it's healthy. Or even that it's healthier than masturbation.
     
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  4. ultrafabber

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    Definitely not, but having sex (as in penetrating) something else at least does not interfere with your sexual identity, you will be the male (penetrator), whereas masturbation messes your gender/sex identity because you become both the female and the male.

    As abhorrent and as wrong as it is, having sex with an animal, if you're the penetrator, you remain a male. Not saying sex with animals is ok cause it's definitely not. It just doesn't interfere with your gender/sex identity. It does interfere in a very bad way with your sex preferences though.
     
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  5. ryguyuplift

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    Using sex dolls is an escalation from porn. Furthermore, you'd likely relapse and use both. This would be highly addictive and really fuck with your psyche. Stay away from the dolls.
     
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  6. Alex1993

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    Think about the doll man!! It doesn’t want to be treated like an object..
     
  7. pump20

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    I was thinking about the sex dolls too, but now I realize that they take up a lot of space, too heavy to carry, and you have to use soap and water to wash them. Maintenance is an issue. Plus, they're expensive anyway. That's the cons of owning them. Pros of owning them are saves money in the long run, you get to dress them anyway you want them. You don't have to be intercourse with them. You can also lay them in bed with you to fall asleep faster. Personally, I'm not interesting on them because that stuff is not necessary anyway. I think about the cons first then the pros. The cons outweigh the pros for me.
     
  8. Anubis Rises

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    ok so we can all agree with no sex dolls
     
  9. Enwar

    Enwar Fapstronaut

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    Yes.
     
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  10. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    At least his hands are alive.
     
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  11. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    It doesn't breathe. It doesn’t move. It doesn’t blink. It’s eyes just stare straight ahead seeing nothing. It can’t speak or think. It’s skin will probably feel cold. Just like a corpse. Unless you’re into necrophilia (no judgment) and since it’s illegal to have sex with real corpses I guess this would be a safer alternative than dealing with rotting corpses.
     
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  12. Consencus

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    I can't tell if this is real or not o_O
     
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  13. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    Dude, that story is hilarious.
     
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  14. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    A person can’t have homosexual hands!
     
  15. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    What if a man happens to marry a woman who has lesbian hands that never want to touch his wee wee?
     
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  16. Wannabesaint2

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    Bro why is it you just don't get a girlfriend
     
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  17. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    A sex doll is easier to control than a woman.
     
  18. Wannabesaint2

    Wannabesaint2 Fapstronaut

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    True but it's probably boring
     
  19. SaturnsSun

    SaturnsSun Fapstronaut

    True. But I was insinuating that someone who wants to own a sex doll probably has control issues and issues with women.
     
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  20. Xander_

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    The way i see it, this is just another excuse to masturbate without watching porn which would eventually lead to porn again.

    You dont need any sex dolls or trickery and you wont find any shortcuts to healing from PMO addiction. You have to abstain from any sexual artificial stimulation and push through the reboot so your brain gets healed properly. I just dont see how would a sex doll specifically help someone reboot ?
     
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