sex dreams

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Sep 15, 2020.

  1. I get a vivid sex dream about 1x / week. It really all started back in June when I started taking NoFap seriously, does anyone else have consistent dreams of sex. And on top of that, i really look forward to them because they are usually people I know. I don't know what it is but I wish I had more control over it
     
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  2. Anakin66

    Anakin66 Fapstronaut

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    I've had a few very vivid ones too. My advice is to not dwell on them. It's natural. I think it's the body responding to semen retention.

    Continue to take nofap serious and build your streak. You want to get to the point where you don't need to purposely nofap. Don't go looking for sex in your dreams cause this may lead to other problems in the future.
     
  3. Comfortablydumb96

    Comfortablydumb96 Fapstronaut

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    I haven't been on many good streaks, just a couple of 2 week streaks this year and a month long streak this year. Even if I don't peek, but excessively fantasize about sex before bed, I end up having a wet dream for sure that night. Sometimes it happens even when I haven't been thinking about sex for a long time. It's just your body's way of removing the dead sperm. I can say that the wet dream thing is very common. Don't sweat it, man.

    You could kinda reduce the occurrence upto some extent, though, if you're really into the semen retention thing. Not washing your crotch area with hot water or bathing with hot water before bed, as it makes the skin sensitive. Not wearing tight underwear or clothing in bed will also help as it'll reduce the friction between your penis and the cloth. Most importantly, don't get lost in your head fantasizing about sex .

    Some people might hate having wet dreams as it might make them feel a bit lethargic the next morning. Others might like it as they're getting some form of sexual release. But the point still stands: It's natural, don't sweat it.

    Edit: If you're a guy like me who is rebooting from severe porn addiction of over a decade, then the wet dreams might be more in the beginning. Sometimes I even have wet dreams of watching porn.(messed up, I know). Just give it time, man
     
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  4. Branchman

    Branchman Fapstronaut

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    As they say, it is natural. There are several factors that promote a wet dream (natural, food, time without eyaculating, psicological). For example, it is more likely to have one if you're stressed, because it is a way your body can release stress. I register my wet dreams. Sometimes I have them two consecutives days (or nights), sometimes I don't even have to have a dream to eyaculate, I mean, I don't dream anything and I still wake up in the morning realizing I had eyaculated. I think most or maybe all (but I at least remeber one dream with a woman that wasn't an acquaintance) the dreams I have are with girls or women I know.

    I have them about each 15 days, or at least once a month (if I don't masturbate).
     
  5. Schnabel

    Schnabel Fapstronaut

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    uhm, dude, I had vivd sex dreams 9 ot of 10 days for more than a decade. It's only been with Nofap that I started dreaming of something else. I guess there is a correlation between day time thoughts and dreams... Did you have thoughts about porn or p-sub related things going on prior to your sex dream?
     

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