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Sex Education Class says I have 2/3 when porn use is bad (minor cases) 90reset

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by 12ove, Apr 8, 2016.

  1. 12ove

    12ove Fapstronaut

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    Sat in on a sex education class with my gf on Wednesday. It discussed three different instances in which masturbation is bad. I have two of the three:
    1. most importantly I am "choosing to masturbate to porn rather than be sexually active with my partner"- while this is in essence not a true statement for me, in fact the vice versa is true. I still will find myself M'ing just before being with her despite my goal of 1 week abstinence, which hasn't happened in sometime. For instance there is a great chance that she will stay over tonight, but I still m'd today. Even after being with her once last night, and once again this morning! So I have learned that sex is definitely one of my triggers, and along with the others I need to take that seriously.

    2. My social/work life is affected. Again, not entirely true for me but to somewhat of an extent it is. I have on occasion thought in the back of my head, oh I will just go home and jack off then go to bed instead of going out to the concert....I am not going to do this anymore.

    I have all of my counters set up except for Psubs, which I am not considering a huge threat for me anymore because I have not sought out psubs in sometime.

    I am going to do the 90 day no PM. I am really hoping to get through all 90 days without doing either of those two in combination with each other, so hopefully the pmo counter will reach 90. I will come in every time I have a serious urge to either watch p or m. Inviting all of you to do the same.
     
  2. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Why do they have to be in combination with each other? They are both harmful to your reboot, by reinforcing artificial means of sexual satisfaction. Surely, either one requires your PM counter to be reset.
     
  3. 12ove

    12ove Fapstronaut

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    I have multiple counters set up, each one alligns with my triggers. PMO being the worst of the resets. PM being second worst.
     

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