So I have got to know this girl, and I have really strong feelings towards her. We have been on 4 dates so far and they have all worked out great. For the next date she asked me over, and I will admit that I am a bit nervouse that we will end up having sex. I want to have sex with her, and I feel she is the rigth one for me. That is not the reason why I am nervouse. I am 22 year old and I am still a virgin, and I am afraid how she will react if I let her know and if I should let her know. I feel like she is the person that would understand, but it is not something I am too proud of, even tho it is by own choise that I am a virgin. I have always told myself that I am not going to have sex for the first time at a party or one nigth stand. I want the first time to be someone I care about, and she is. I am also nervous about performance. How she will react if I have "no clue" what I am doing. Ofcours I have learnt some her and there by listening and reading, but I have never done anything. I don't understand why I am nervous. Shes great, she is kind, shes understanding. She just wants me the best. Still I am nervous, even tho I feel she is the perfect on to do it for the first time with. Any tips for first timers to calm down and other tips? thanks! I know I will break everything regarding streaks, but I don't care as long as I am with the rigth person.