1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Sex on NoFap?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Nyirenda, Nov 3, 2018.

Can I have sex with my girlfriend while on NoFap?

  1. Yes

    21 vote(s)
    95.5%
  2. No

    1 vote(s)
    4.5%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Nyirenda

    Nyirenda Fapstronaut

    6
    28
    13
    I started nofap three days ago....my girlfriend is coming for Christmas in December....my question is can I have sex with her while on NoFap?
     
    Lovable king likes this.
  2. Lovable king

    Lovable king Fapstronaut

    91
    204
    33
    Yes you can sex with her . make practice on sexual life ... Porn life is bad and virtual only
     
    charlie78 and Nyirenda like this.
  3. Nyirenda

    Nyirenda Fapstronaut

    6
    28
    13
    By the way me and her really sext alot...is that a good idea or should I stop?
     
  4. nadox

    nadox Fapstronaut

    51
    190
    33
    Sex isn’t bad, it’s porn and the misconception of normal sex that’s the issue. Have sex with your girl. Just don’t masterbate to porn or watch porn.
     
    Nyirenda likes this.
  5. samnf1990

    samnf1990 Fapstronaut

    400
    668
    93
    Does it bring you closer? Do you feel as though you are valuing and respecting her or more like you are using her in the way that you use porn? You probably know better than anyone else what is going to help you overcome your own particular struggles with porn. My wife and I would only sext (or similar) if we are away from each other for long enough that neither of us would want to wait that long without being sexual. But the key thing for us is that the use and exchange of any imagery would be simultaneous for us both, we would interact in some form throughout, and all of the imagery or materials would be deleted afterwards. Otherwise, it is a solitary and lonely act and too similar to PMO (ie if I was tempted to reuse a picture without my wife's knowledge). If you are struggling from death grip or PIED, DE etc, then you are probably best avoiding all M altogether, whether or not it involves your partner's input. In that case you need to retrain yourself to enjoy the touch of your partner.
     
  6. Think about your goals and what you are trying to accomplish. If it doesn't go against your plan, no problem.
     
    torrace likes this.
  7. Nyirenda

    Nyirenda Fapstronaut

    6
    28
    13
    THANK YOU FOR THE FEEDBACK!
     

Share This Page