Sex-toys for M: Does it feed into P addiction?

Vibrators desensitize your nerves if used too much. It has a similar affect in the sense that once you use them regularly, your body takes longer to climax and sex and M without them then becomes difficult too. It's not a natural and real feeling. When not getting the same satisfaction after a while, you tend to want to seek out other stimuli to help, therefore it may lead to adding P into the mix. So yes, I would say sex toys would perpetuate P addiction and it would not be ideal during reboot or quitting PM.

 

Advice: don't use any sex toys. Your goal should be to have a real and satisfying sex life one day with another person. So using artificial stimuli, whether it be P or sex toys, it would be the same thing. It's not real

 

@ThePineForestier ,

@MsPants advices are sound.
Keepin in mind that sex toys CAN be introduced in the bedroom is both partners agree, to spice things up a little. They have been around forever. BUT, you have to make sure its consensual.

Spoiler: TRIGGER

The recent porn vid depicts couples that are overly enthusiastic by introducing the toy. So yes, NOWADAYS, Toys are a porn genre. the women that use a fleshlight on their man? Really? I think they don't really want to introduce competition in the bedroom.
The woman that let her man feed her a 12" black dildo, to the point it over stretches her?

Also, on the desensitization aspect, well, you have to make sure the sex toy doesn't become the replacement for the real organs. Porn depicts a lot of big dildos, that are basically too big for most lady. Might looks scary. But if they get used to it, they might really like it and your regular penis might feel like old news to them. You might feel cuckholded by a plastic dildo. For the vibrators, they work, but the powerful orgasm they give becomes competition. Some women NEED the vibe to orgasm. If you make love at the hotel on vacation and the vibe is at home and she is dependant on it, you can try to work it out until she says SORRY, "lets wait until we get home" cause she wants the vibe. A more sound decision is to learn how to properly perform oral sex and vaginal stimulation.


I found that out of the many sex toys I bought in my life, only very few were found acceptable by the wife. I ended up throwing money down the drain. something small, low-key looking, is better.
If you are a single man try to find something more pleasurable than your hand, you might screw yourself up...those fleshlights are probably over stimulating (too thight and too much ribbing inside), you could later suffer from delayed ejaculation with real woman. You probably can hump the thing very fast (not realistic) and that can cause a variant of DEATHGRIP.

I know that some people seem to use fleshlight to better control their the ejaculation. Maybe it works, but its mostly marketing. You can learn to last longer with your hand.
For the sex dolls, they are either so cheap looking its like screwing a flotation device or too expensive (a few thousands) to get a branded "real doll". I find that you got to be creepy if you fork thousands on a latex doll.

All in all, if you are alone and look for extra thrills, you might have been caught into the porn vids marketing....the fleshlights vids, etc...I bought a few toys after sessions of PMO'ing. Having a few drinks, PMO'ing for hours, ending up ordering sex toys from amazon, etc....

The goal is to get out of the house and meet a real person. Develop your inner self, be a good person and that will give a good girl the taste to get to know you better.

 

I had a fleshlight and I threw it out earlier this year so yeah no artificial stimuli

 

I dont know, for example i have bought one sex toy from edenfantasys 1 month ago, i can't say that I play with him all the time, i play maybe 1-2 times per week

 

Sorry, but mentioning websites when not needed might not be the best of things to do, as some people might not be able to resist the urge to look it up.