Sex was always a spiritual bonding act between woman and man

Sex is beautiful, some people like it with same sex people and that’s ok

 

People are made to be loved...and Things are made to be used.
In today's world though, we use people and we love things.

When somebody gets married, we buy them a toaster or whatever... a gift
I think God gives sex....way better than a toaster. Something special and unique they can share together.

But today, we use sex like a commodity. Porn makes it like buying a donut. Tinder etc make it like Uber Eats
We use people. It cheapens them, and sex, and us.

Screw the industry that preys on this. Whether a user or the performers (paid or homemade) it ruins relationships. It literally does the opposite of what sex was designed to do.

(Now if only my brains impulsiveness would agree with my brains logic system)

 

Dear lady, you have hit the nail on the head.

To me sex is a sacred bonding activity that should be used exclusively for couples to deepen and strengthen their love for one another, and I wish to find a young lady who shares that view as part of a sincere, committed, long-term relationship.

21st Century society is becoming hedonistic and degenerate as more and more people are encouraged to 'follow their passions' rather than discipline their minds and work hard early to reach a greater good in the future. Sex is shared around like a common cold or a family fun-sized packet of crisps, and so-called 'progressives' tear down ancient principles such as marriage that are designed to encourage a healthy, orderly society.

We are not chimps and are more intelligent and advanced than our caveman ancestors. We have the power and higher thinking to follow our conscience over our instincts in order to get what we truly want and deserve, so by thunder we should do so! We may have lost the order our ancestors created, but we can find it again through choosing to use sex in the way the Gods intended.

 

like a family size bag of crisps looool. I'm gonna remember this one.

 

No disrespect, but have a look at the cats, dogs, mice, deer, horses, pigs and anything else that fucks to ensure the survival of the species.

Food
Shelter
Reproduction of the species
Everything else is your imagination.

 

Unlike other animals, we have the power to behave in a controlled manner, and view life with a more conscientious attitude. Not using that gift is the reason why our society is in such a mess as it is.

 

Not always, man, not always... And it never will be always and for all. It's about your personal choices and the values you stand for. But I agree completely that it should be. On the other hand, I'm not naive enough to believe it can always be. That is not to say that I assume I will personally falter, but rather that we won't be able to convince everyone.

 

Wow, I really like this quote. Very accurate, just like @Coak Hakola said.
I am going to remember that one.

 

I too see sex as spiritual and for bonding. I’m struggling now that I’m over 40 because for the first time I am extremely horny! It has to do with age and a woman’s body and Mother Nature wanting us to reproduce! It’s uncontrollable and when alone my mind keeps going thoughts of being dominated by a man, sexual things, etc. I can now imagine how men must feel when young. In my 20s and 30s I was not sexual at all. Now in my 40s it’s the opposite, my body craves a special man to thrust himself inside of my vagina and well... ya know the rest!

I also have constant thoughts about rubbing on the male sexual organ which I never did in my 20s and 30s. Maybe it was my porn addiction that has caused this so hopefully I make it through this first week and more days and the sexual feelings and thoughts will stop. I’m hoping!