Sex without orgasm

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by VeryUnderstanding, Mar 12, 2016.

  1. VeryUnderstanding

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    Hi guys i was wondering if sex without orgasm is cheating but a few points which make me think its not cheating is that its real sex with a real person its not porn im not masturbating and im not orgasming ? Thoughts on this
     
  2. kk76

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    I have sex but do not orgasm via penetration as I have never been able to. Why is it cheating?
     
  3. VeryUnderstanding

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    Cheating to the reboot
     
  4. Kennen

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    I believe you're fine. Keep going.
     
  5. VeryUnderstanding

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    In doing this no sex with orgasm i feel like alot of energy is being put into it i feel a massive connection latley ! And after 90days i cant wait for the day I finally let it out !
     
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  6. kk76

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    Why would you do it but no O? Not better to not do it at all?
     
  7. Gladiatori

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    @VeryUnderstanding The sex w/o O is the ultimate sexual discipline. I read about it. Tell me how it goes!
     
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  8. Moogie

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    You could get a very bad case of blue balls that way.
     
  9. Gladiatori

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    @VeryUnderstanding Oh by the way.. that thing about the sperm is true. The trick is that you will hold that sperm correctly. YOu must do the kegel very very hard for a few months. Isometric and repitition. Also strong strong lower abs and pelvic floor. And then you must know your body perfectly. If you release the sperm but u hold it it will go to your bladder. But if you hold it before it passes that part where kegel muscle stops fluid, it will be fine. U will fell pain if it is bad. Otherwise then ejaculation did not occur. If you want to master this you must practice very hard, or you can damage your penis.

    Consider very much if it is worth it, I suggest only to do this after you have control of sexual power. Cheers.

    Read on this in the ancient texts... The hindu and chinese knew it.
     
  10. kk76

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    Ok that answers my question
     
  11. come on guys. What are you scaring this guy about. Se without climax is the ultimate lovemaking. Some people might get blue balls, but its a rare thing. Karezza is the name for sex without orgasm. All you do is managing yourself, and enjoying the sex. Sex itself should not be the action to reach orgasm. Anyway this not only with strengthen the bond with your girl, or wife, but you will keep that sexual energy. It's definitelly not cheating in the reboot not evel a litle, for all I can say after reading alot about sex without orgasm, its only beneficial.
     
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  12. VeryUnderstanding

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    Yeah man that's what its like !!! No all about orgasming im saving it love making and connecting more during sex takes alot of my energy tho
     
  13. Damon

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    I love having intercourse without ejaculation, it's amazing. My girlfriend can orgasm many times, but I do not. My sexual energy is used to pleasure her.
     
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  14. Good question. If one is practicing semen retention, the person probably also should practice sex transmutation to harness and redirect that raw energy at the base of the spine. (If one is practicing sex transmutation along with semen retension, I would hypothesize that the likelihood of "blue balls" diminishes almost completely.) There are many ways to raise the energy up the spine - Yoga, meditation, Earthing, and Chi Machine (running or other strenuous cardiovascular exercise works a little) - those are the ones I have experience with. And then if you are love-making while refraining from porn, masturbation, and orgasm, the more power to you. As it says in Think and Grow Rich, sex has three uses, procreation, as a healing agent, and transforming mediocrity into genius by transmutation.
    If you are making love with a partner and not orgasming, your body is going to still send the hormones (testosterone) to the brain that increases productivity, which increases your manifestational abilities.
     
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  15. lantti

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    Nope. I tried this. I managed to separate certain muscles that make dick hard from the rest, but it still caused some form of "orgasm". It still clouded my brain. It's injaculation, it's affects the brains same way though without the opiates. As in all, you can fuck woman for many days, but it means that you will never think again (and cannot stop until you cum), which explains why chinese emperors weren't administrating their goverment.

    As for us, who are/were addicts, its effect are devastating. Besides that, women really don't want sex that bad, they want more of devotion and love. Nofap makes every women look at me with interest, relapsing with ignoring, and after that taoist/injaculation/pcmuscle thing... They did look with interest at first, but then they sensed that my brain had unnatural hunger in it and escaped the situation. All in all, I turned into a monster. Once I found that out I got into the cold shower, and never will I go back.
     
  16. Shiva44poison

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    How many days a men can sex without orgasm ??? Can any know or experience? Please tell me....
     

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