Sexuality as a nuisance?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by castlerock39, Mar 20, 2019.

  1. castlerock39

    castlerock39 Fapstronaut

    So, to be honest, I don't really know what I'm asking here, but lately I've been feeling like sexuality is just a nuisance. I'm 19, a virgin, and have never had a girlfriend, been out on a date, or kissed or hugged a girl, and lately I've just been feeling annoyed by my desire for sex and emotional intimacy. I do have a desire deep down for these things, but I just wish I didn't. Dating just seems like more trouble than it's worth, and I'd rather focus on other things without having to waste time on relationships. Is this normal? Are these feelings something I should be worried about or need to address? I don't really know how to articulate this well, which is rare for me, but...
     
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  2. Verula

    Verula New Fapstronaut

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    Wow. You basically just described me, about the only difference between our stories is that I got a hug once. I certainly don't have an answer for you, I think that a relationship is a beautiful thing and have wanted one for years (to no avail), but as time goes by I find myself getting more and more frustrated with it all and kind of just wish I could switch my sexuality off from time to time. It is so frustrating to want a relationship with a girl, but feel like there are a million hurdles to cross just for a chance at finding it, and its certainly a major cause of relapse for me. Don't know if OP can identify with this or not, but if anyone has any advice then I'm certainly all ears.
     
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  3. Judas Johnson

    Judas Johnson Fapstronaut

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    I think that Porn has made me this way.
    It's easier to rub one out watching porn than it is to deal with all the complications and worry that come with a relationship. Yet deep down in me is a strong desire to fund that special one and settle
     
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  4. castlerock39

    castlerock39 Fapstronaut

    I definitely can identify, and it's good to know I'm not the only one who feels like this.
     
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