Shaving body hair?

I honestly don't see any connection between P and shaving. I have always shaved down there and my armpits. It feels good, light and airy. Since I joined NoFap, I haven't relapsed but I have shaved, and I can attest that I didn't feel inclined to M while shaving. That's just me and I know everyone's different, but reading this thread made me feel a bit ostracised since everybody seems to think that it's good and "manly" to be hairy. As a secondary point, I reckon too much hair would be off-putting to the female as well, though I've never had sex so I wouldn't know for sure.

thats good to know, I haven't had my shave since nofap, but can I call it shave? when I basically use an electric trimmer? Armpit and pubes have to go, but I agree with people when they say that men shouldn't shave the hairs on the rest of their body. They are there for a reason, I guess its the vanity that was planted in minds from porn and to some extent body building that makes men want to shave all the hair on their bodies. Armpit and pubes hair arent in well ventilated areas so they to get really damp. Hair and facial hair is optional for me. But as far as body hair I think its best to leave everything except for armpit and pubes.
 
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Because it's not natural.

I really don't understand why it matters if its natural or not. We expect women to be basically hairless yet 90% of men don't even bother to do any grooming, do you really think a women likes touching your arse when your having sex and feeling hair on it? Or if shes giving you oral and a hair gets in her mouth?

Oh well
 
I really don't understand why it matters if its natural or not. We expect women to be basically hairless yet 90% of men don't even bother to do any grooming, do you really think a women likes touching your arse when your having sex and feeling hair on it? Or if shes giving you oral and a hair gets in her mouth?

Oh well
Both men and women are expected to shave in todays society as this is considered sexually appealing. I personally wouldn't mind if a woman had hair down there. 20 years ago not being shaved was considered normal.
 
Why does anyone shave the crack?
Hmm, good question. o_O The only answer I can think of is to make it a more enjoyable experience for the other person that is rimming him and penetrating him. But I cannot see what advantage it is to Eric. Perhaps Eric can enlighten us, lol. ;)
 
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I personally only shave my facial hair, and only because I can't grow a full beard and it looks awful if I don't shave it. My dad couldn't grow facial hair until his late twenties and it looks like it will be the same for me. I haven't shaved my pubic hair in years and I prefer it that way, the last time I shaved down there it just felt wrong to me, and it was itchy as hell. I personally love a woman with pubic hair and wouldn't ever expect one to shave for me.
 
I'd like to comment on the hairy vaginas... um no, hairy vaginas look horrible, the hair needs to go. I cannot be a women who thinks its okay to not shave down there, its sickening just thinking about it. I've had to unfortunately educe a hairy vagina on an asian chick once, can you that she shaves everywhere, including arms which I've seen her do infront of me... everywhere expect for her vagina. A turn off for me. But thats just me.
 
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I cannot imagine how I would do it either. Do you electric shave or wet shave? Are you double-jointed? :p
Lol okay. Whatever floats your boat! Hahaha ;)

I find poo gets stuck in my arse hair which makes it a pain to wipe my bottom. I occasionally shave the hair around the crack with a small electric razor (one of the ones used for trimming stuff like nasal hair). Otherwise I find I end up pulling the hair out on the toilet paper! :eek:

I'd just like to chime in to this conversation, and say that in the past I have latched on to the porn based fantasy of shaved vaginas. However, it's not nearly as feasible in real life. Imagine having that conversation with a girl. "Oh no sorry you have to shave down there before we can have sex"... I have shaved my pubic hair in the past, all the way down to bare skin, and it's a horrible sensation, terribly itchy and you feel all exposed. If the situation were to arise, I might suggest a trim on behalf of both parties, but that would be it!

Well, what interesting conversation... Haha. ;)
 
@IGY you can ask the same question to people who say they find a bearded man horrible looking compared to shaved. I just prefer to look at a shaved vagina rather than one with hair around it. Even when was watching porn I'd always skip the actresses with bush down there, thats a downgrade in my opinion I can recall at least 2 hot porn stars who never shave and if they did they'd get it shaped, it killed my vibe and made them seem dirty to me and not in a good way. I might be one of the few guys who has this kind of preference in women.
 
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I might be one of the few guys who has this kind of preference in women.
Actually, I think the reverse is true. Hairy genitals used to be all the rage a few decades ago, but porn, esp. internet porn has had a massive influence on the sexual tastes of the consumers and smooth men and women is now the preferred look.
@IGY you can ask the same question to people who say they find a bearded man horrible looking compared to shaved.
I think this is different, simply because our heads are visible at all times and it makes sense that they would be styled and groomed - the hair on our head and under our head, so to speak. But to me, the rest of the body seems a different case.
 
What are ya'll talking about? o_O

Pubic hair is there for a reason. It provides a nice cushion during sex. No reason to shave it. And for everyone who is with child going to try to make their gfs shave, you ain't rebooted yet mate! Give it time and you will find you don't care whether it is shaved or not.
 
Not all of our sexual preferences are influenced by porn Mammo.
True. But I would argue that in this case, the preference for hairless women has been manufactured. Not only by porn, though that has obviously played a huge role, but also by comercial forces trying to sell razors. Women haven't always shaved their legs you know:

But why do we recoil at the sight of a few follicles? When and why did women begin to strip hair from their bodies, anyway?

Historians are unable to pinpoint the first group of women to remove body hair, said Victoria Sherrow, author of "Encyclopedia of Hair: A Cultural History." Women in ancient Egypt used beeswax and depilatories made from an alkali, like quicklime, to remove leg hair, she said. Ancient Romans and Greeks used pumice to remove body hair.

"Some cultures regarded it as uncivilized, since body hair appears on animal bodies," said Sherrow. "The idea of a hairless body for American women developed between 1915 and 1945."

Many attribute the kickoff in 1915 to Gillette's Milady Decollete, "the first razor designed and marketed specifically for women, and was billed in the extensive national advertising campaign as the 'safest and most sanitary method of acquiring a smooth underarm,' " according to author Russell B. Adams Jr. in "King C. Gillette: The Man and His Wonderful Shaving Device."

The movement also took hold as sleeveless dresses and sheerer fabrics became fashionable and hemlines rose. Safety razors were also produced en masse.

"As the middle class grew, women's lives increasingly became defined by spending power and habits," wrote Jennifer Scanlon, professor of gender and women's studies at Bowdoin College, in her book "Inarticulate Longings: The Ladies' Home Journal, Gender, and the Promises of Consumer Culture."

It was the perfect storm for advertisers as magazines like Ladies' Home Journal and Harper's Bazaar flooded homes, not only informing, but shaping women's concepts of beauty.

"You see this kind of transformation of the female body — that women are increasingly to be looked at," Scanlon said of advertisements at the time. "There's sort of the promise that more and more women can gain access to beauty if they engage in these practices (like) shaving their armpits."

While engaging in such practices was synonymous with femininity, during the 1970s and 1980s, not engaging in them became the "litmus test of feminism," Scanlon said.

But since that time, 'going bald below' gained more steam as bikinis became teeny-weeny.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/...13-shaving-20100913_1_shaving-strip-hair-body
 
What a fascinating quotation @TheUnnasumingMammothrept. I suppose porn just gave a window to the consumer-led fashion. But it is worth noting, it had little to do with 'going bald below' looking more beautiful, just business men lining their pockets! Ain't that typical! :rolleyes:
 
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