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She want sex, but my PIED is still here

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Homelander, Nov 3, 2019.

  1. Nov 3, 2019 #1
    Homelander

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    Hi guys,

    I have been chating with a girl i met on Tinder 3 weeks ago. Our talks feel great and we really feel connected to each other. So much, even our chats have turned very sexual. I am aware that these now daily sexual chats are not good for my pmo streak but since this is with a real woman, I tought it would be ok.
    People who read my past posts know I have a Porn addiction and a weakness for escorts.
    The good news is that I felt zero urges going back to my bad habits. I already know I will never ever go back to fake digital garbage, because nothing beats having real sex.

    Three days ago we had our first phone sex. My plan was to only do edging, but
    When she asked me to come together with her I let go. It felt fantastic ,but the next day I felt empty, loss of sexual energy.

    she asked me to meet up with her to have tee & sex. I havent had real sex in a very long time and I know making love with her would feel fantastic, but among other things my PIED is holding me back from meeting up with her. My erections felt very different after 2 weeks no Masturbation.

    Luckely I have already told her of my past porn addiction, but not yet about my PIED.
    Should I wait and see what happens next week when I'm naked with her or should i just tell her about my nerves and ED?
    I'm concidering telling her and saying that we should build up our sexual relationship first by only making out and doing full body massages only.
    But how realistic is this?
     
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  2. Nov 3, 2019 #2
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    I feel that since the relationship is so new, that the news of telling her about pd may scare her off. I would take my chances and see what happens. You may be suprised and be able to perform. Or worse case, if you experience some ED, you still get physical touching with her, maybe an attempted bj. If nothing else you can perform oral on her. Id much rather give a woman oral then nothing at all.
     
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  3. Nov 17, 2019 #3
    Napav

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    I can't suggest anything.
    But I can state a fact : without completely recovering, if you try again, your situation will get worse.
    For now exercise daily, meditate, walk, run. Thank God and be happy!
     
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  4. Nov 18, 2019 #4
    Fallacious D

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    This. I had PIED during my first relationship, so I couldn't perform and she wasn't ready for sex anyways, so I just went down on her constantly. It sounds cucked but it's actually insanely fun to please a woman like that. I recommend.

    And @Homelander , it honestly it sounds like you're both 100% into the sexual part of this relationship. You and I both know it's going to be impossible for you not to cum when you have a partner like that. So just try things out with her and if shit goes downhill, explain PIED to her and if she's open minded she'll understand. Good luck, and give us some updates.
     
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