Shemale and Gay porn, how many addicted?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by SpringWater, Apr 23, 2019.

  1. SpringWater

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    Holy shit, that was perfectly put!
     
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  2. SpringWater

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    Ok, let’s just say 10, 20 years ago..this didn’t exist. I have had quite a life, quite a variety of places lived, friends, etc...this wasn’t around.

    I live in the US...maybe you live in a country where sexuality repressed and so this could happen...but not here, well not until recently.
     
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  3. InnerFaith

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    all the world is repressing sexuality, i am sure even your country.
    people are so ashamed to admit they like transgenders, because its usualy straight men who are also atracted to women, and they are afraid that it will mark them as lesser valued among women.. they are afraid they will lose the opportuntiy to create life with a women.
     
  4. SpringWater

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    I respectfully disagree, I think it’s porn that has caused this fascination with transgenders.

    If you are attracted to girls, why would you want a transgender? They aren’t found in nature?

    It’s all about the dopamine and novelty.

    I had a great trans friend. Even at his most “girl looking” version he still didn’t hold a candle to a real girl.

    Ask almost all guys...”if you were drunk at s bar, it’s closibg time and you had to chose between some trans girl( let’s be clear a guy) or some average looking little big girl, which would you chose?”

    I will let you decide on the answer.

    I have seen a few trans in the city now; since it has become this new trend)...none turn my head, none look anything like what you see in a porn vid.

    It’s the porn that’s turning the frogs gay( not the water Alex)

    Ok you have your opinion and I have mine.

    But people on this site have bad addiction to this stuff so we need to not confuse them.
     
  5. InnerFaith

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    its not our conversations that "confuse" them, its the pornography itself.
    by the way, you cannot confuse/repress your self with words.. only thing that can somehow help is the nofap rehab.
    to actualy not expose yourself to pornography and grey area stufs like women teasing with dances in minimal clothes..

    its funny you brought up alex jones, isn't it ironic he got caught with shemale porn after preaching about how sick and deranged the lgbt are, so he actualy talk about himself ?
     
  6. SpringWater

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    Haha touché
    Yes ironic

    Reminds me a of a friend who I saw years ago had shemale porn vids on his computer.

    I was like.... what?

    Couldnt understand it,

    He is straight married, then left and later I think got remarried

    Not gay

    No desire for dudes

    Or chicks with dicks

    Then when I watched more porn I started needing more novelty...now I get why he had it on there.
     
  7. A_New_Me_2019

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    I cannot generalize but what I can say is that in my personal case, porn and sexual anxiety approach me to that trans stuff.
    Somehow I felt induced.
    I even had experiences which I feel embarrassed to admit
    It is true that nobody forced me.
    So I have to face the reality and go on.
    The first goal is to reboot my brain and see how do I feel and then seek to improve my self-knowledge.
     
  8. letgolive

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    Your not alone here I too have this issues but lately unless it had blood gore or violence I was turned in by it.
    I noticed my attraction was becoming very vast and wide!
    My barriers we vanishing, scary shit porn!
     
  9. Champion!

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    Great discussions here that provides insight into my condition. I was sexually abused by a male family friend for several years in elementary school to early high school and that shaped my interests. Although I liked girls in my class, I started looking up guys on the internet and got into more extreme stuff like gay porn etc. I feel disgusted with myself every time because I now sexualize guys in my head although I have very strong feelings for this particular girl. I am hoping quiting PMO will helo me become a better man in my relationship and in life im general.
     
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  10. Kratos_GOW

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    It is a simple logic. When you start watching porn after sometime you don't feel aroused as its the same thing all iver again. As tested with a mouse, when mouse was made to have sex with the same partner he after some time stopped doing it but when a new partner was introduced his drive came back up. Same with this thing, the reason you all are watching she males is because your brain find it interesting and different from what you usually see. And solution is same NoFAP challenge will cure you on this one.
     
  11. I've been into this shit for a long time. I had sex with several shemales, some of them looked just like girls. But you know what? In the end, i just have that feeling that this is just wrong. Nothing against gay people, or the shemales that have a happy life and love what they do. But in the end you just know and feel how bad and wrong it is. I don't think shemales would exist if not because of porn. These are mentally ill men. They are all mentally unstable they cant have a normal relationship of love without cheating and fucking their bodies. Shemales destroy families. When i had sex with some of them once, i was so fucked by porn i said to myself "i'm gonna do it to see for myself how fucked up im and this person." I did it and ok in the beginning it was great but in the end, there is no love, there is no affection, there is no wanting to know more. You feel bad for yourself to do such thing and you feel bad for the person. I mean, sorry for the long post, i hope someone here can relate. Shemales that mutilate their bodies are not normal. They need treatment. They should respect their nature.
     
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  12. Brohime

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    I posted a thread yesterday about this. I have been into this for a while and recently saw a trans escort. I sucked her dick and let her fuck my ass. It was insane I thought my heart was going to beat out of my chest! But in the hours and days that followed the shame and sickness kicked in. It is gone now though and I am exploring doing it again. It was like someone injected me with adrenaline, ecstasy, dopamine and testosterone all at once.
     
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  13. FirstBorn93

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    Addicted here as well for years now.
    I've been with about 8 shemales , 2 crossdressers and a lot of men too.
    Porn addiction led me to this without a doubt.
    With men i have only received a blowjob , crossdressers i fucked them as well but with shemales i sucked their cocks but i have never got fucked.
    Lately i've been wanting to bottom for a shemale and let her use me.
    I felt ashamed after each time , feeling so bad , unbelievable how many men share the same struggle...
     
  14. InnerFaith

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    i can say that the more i stopped and got away from porn, the more i returned to focus on biological women, and if it happen to me for sure seuxality is a fluid thing that reflects a state of mind, and for sure anyone can do better than me if he stops with porn..
    i still relapse from time to time, and deal with it, but its less and less on trans and more on women, just like "the good old days"
     
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  15. Sysyphus

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    While I respect the opinions stated here, I strongly disagree with the idea that transgenders are sick people who need treatment. I think it's just a matter of sexual orientation and identity, to me that sounds as rude as if you said that about homosexuals. Nobody is forcing us to jack off to them or contact them, I think WE ARE the sick people who need treatment, not them. Also, if you do some research, you'll find out the so called third gender has a long history way before the internet porn, I'm talking centuries here, so it didn't really stem from porn. Porn just made us aware of it.

    I invite you to be respectful of all people, and don't project your own issues on somebody else by calling them sick, disgusting or what not. I don't think any of us here have the moral high ground to question or judge other people's sexuality or decisions. Everybody is entitled to do whatever they want with their body and with their lives.
     
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  16. FirstBorn93

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    I understand exactly what you're saying , on my longest streak which was 3 months i felt so attarcted towards biological women , they were so much more beautiful and attractive when i stopped watching porn completely.
    Once i returned to watching porn the shemale fetish and gay fetish slowly started to build again.

    Not everyone has to agree but i agree that everyone has to be respectful.
     
  17. TimeToQuitNow

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    I tried the shemale stuff how a little bit. I masturbated to it a few times but couldn't get into it. At the end of the day dicks turn me off. I never watched gay porn and probably wouldn't for the same reason. I feel blessed that I never had to go through this struggle of questioning my sexuality because of porn like many of you on the website. But that doesn't mean I'm not here for you and you aren't here for me. We are all in this together. One community. Let's recover together!
     
  18. ultrafabber

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    Shemale/gay porn is almost a "natural" progression from "straight porn"

    Straight porn conditions you to be sexually aroused and orgasm seeing erect penises, seeing other men in sexual situations etc. It's a very straight forward case of Classical conditioning. If you ever heard of Pavlov's dog, that's what porn is doing to you - conditioning to (first) not be bothered by dick, then (secondly) to like dick.

    I keep trying to warn people that watching "straight porn" (boy/girl porn) IS AN EXTREMELY DAMAGING AND FUCKED UP BEHAVIOR.

    You're associating "sex" with erect penises and MEN. When you have real sex with a woman you never see ANOTHER MAN and you rarely even see your own dick, let alone another guy's dick. When you orgasm, you see her face or her hair usually, NOT ANOTHER GUY ON TOP OF A WOMAN. That's why interracial porn is even worse, cause it CAN'T be you, it's obviously another man.

    So you just orgasm while seeing another guy's dick and another guy. All of that while you're stroking a dick (doesn't matter that it's your own). Of course you'll get SAME SEX ATTRACTION on top of regular attraction.
     
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  19. Luvspin68

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    Ultrafabber

    This is the smartest thing I have heard on this site.
    It makes total freaking sense.
     
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  20. TRIGGER WARNINGS

    Very addicted to shemale and gay porn even though I consider myself “straight”, this May be apart of my Shame of not admitting that I am pansexual or any kind of label, but I still prefer my wife/ the company of women above all else. I too have done many sexual acts, with transgender (m2f, f2m) people, cross dressers and gay men all for sexual gratification. I never felt shame from doing any activities, but because I am married.
     
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