Should a man date with loaded gun?
- Thread starter Ghost101
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Try this: If you dont fap for a few days wont you be a lot more motivated to make something happen? Fapping before a date will make you anxious, lethargic, uninterested. It is a reason we are a bunch of men gathered on this site. We believe that fapping and porn in particular is putting cogs in the wheels of our dating life.
Finn The Human
Fapstronaut
Agreed! NoFap before date but rather feel into that horniness and let it be there... use it to fuel your presence with the woman. Let her come to you and make the first moves.
"Should I fap before dating" also sounds a bit like my own brain trying to rationalize fapping again...
"Should I fap before dating" also sounds a bit like my own brain trying to rationalize fapping again...
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Continue to stay up. Eventually you’ll get sleepy. Guarantee it.
Finn The Human
Fapstronaut
Mhm... I know that feeling. I fought through it trying to sleep. Probably, getting up, starting to read, exercise or take a cold shower would be nicer options.
Meshuga
Fapstronaut
When I first saw this thread I thought it was about firearms discipline and it's like... no. It's a metaphor. And I think it's missing the point.
Of course I'm assuming what the point is, but I thought this was a forum about porn and masturbation addiction. I thought it was called "NoFap." In which case, any time we're talking about fapping and whether it may be a good idea or not, the answer would be somewhere along the lines of "no."
I stand by my first assessment, and concerning the followup question from the OP that has nothing to do with dating
Of course I'm assuming what the point is, but I thought this was a forum about porn and masturbation addiction. I thought it was called "NoFap." In which case, any time we're talking about fapping and whether it may be a good idea or not, the answer would be somewhere along the lines of "no."
I stand by my first assessment, and concerning the followup question from the OP that has nothing to do with dating
We're about more than 4am today. We're about the long term. We don't look for immediate gratification right now, for the moment; we're looking to fix our lives. We can't teach our bodies to rely on MO, even to sleep. We make the sacrifice today, this morning, and be tired the whole rest of the day, rather than make ourselves reliant on a destructive personal practice. That's how this works.
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You either die a rizzler or live long enough to become a jizzler.