Hey. So I’ve been with this girl for just over a year. She hasn’t done anything wrong but I feel like I just don’t love her. Which is making me feel guilty. I feel like I’m wasting her time and that she could be spending her time with someone that really does love her. We get on well. She’s a lovely girl. I’m finding it so hard to tell her that perhaps we shouldn’t be together because I know she’s gonna burst out in to tears. I’m also confused because I know I’ve got a good one but I just don’t get that feeling of love and excitement when I see her. Now I’m gonna say something that might make me sound like a bad person. I just can’t stop noticing other girls. I feel as though if I really loved this girl then I would only notice her, right? I wouldn’t be interested in other women. (I just wanna clarify that I have not cheated on her). People that I’ve spoken with have told me that I’m just wasting both of our time by being with her if I don’t love her. Has anyone ever had an experience like this? I’m a bit lost.