Should I fap?

Kai101

Kai101

Fapstronaut
Hey guys. I have been getting incredibly strong urges to fap since yesterday. My brain is trying to rationalize fapping and watching porn. Im so close to 90 days, but it's like I don't have any motivation to continue nofap right now. I have almost ZERO motivation to not watch porn and fap. Im wondering, since I'm a teenager, should I just fap and call it a day? Can I do nofap, but just fap and not watch porn? I'm experiencing extreme sexual tension right now and have been fantasizing about fapping and watching porn all day. I really want to fap. Should I?
 
Wow at 80 days. Of course you can do this reboot!

At 16, your hormones are going to be high. Super high. But you can overcome them. Your motivation is that ou have already done 80, you can do another 10. It’s just over a week. You can do it.

Think of all the benefits you have experienced already. (Seriously. Type them)

Think of all the damage you can now avoid because you made it through. (Seriously. Type them)

You can break this terrible addiction before it affects your life seriously. You have done fantastic. You can continue to be fantastic.

This is probably the last hoorah if your addiction. Trying to make you fall back before you go too far and beat this addiction. So crush it.

Be proactive and make sure you can make 90

Good luck mate!
 
The short answer is NO. Think of why you started NoFap to begin with. You have let your guard down and as a result you have lost your path. Do not stray. This is what relapse does. Your brain tells you “one harmless little fix is fine, no harm done”. Before you know it you’ve relapsed 30 times and all the progress you’ve made over your reboot will have been for nothing—completely lost. Don’t give in. You experiencing urges is a good thing. If you weren’t experiencing urges then you would not be close to being healed yet. But don’t wash away all your hard work. Stay the path and the rewards will be endless.
 
First of all I would say just hold on until you reach 90; you're already so close. After the 90 day period, I would allow yourself to MO but only in panic situations. Panic situations would be when you're going to relapse and watch porn again. Just MO, and you'll be happy you didn't relapse. Don't over do MO though; you'll eventually get bored with it and want more. Only do it in emergency situations.
 
IGY said:
That makes no sense IMO. He needs to maintain his goals until he has rebooted completely. For a guy in his mid-teens, that is never going to happen in just three months.
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I understand it can come off as counter-intuitive, but I meant only in emergency situations. Would you rather have him relapse or just MO?
 
Thanks for the replies guys. You have been very supportive. Im still hanging in there. Going to go to bed soon and start fresh tomorrow. Day 81 is almost complete thanks to you guys.
 
Kai101 said:
Thanks for the replies guys. You have been very supportive. Im still hanging in there. Going to go to bed soon and start fresh tomorrow. Day 81 is almost complete thanks to you guys.
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I’ve seen all your threads. You’ve had a tough day today. So first off congratulations on making it. tomorrow might be easier. Or not. But. You have got this in hand. Keep going strong mate
 
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