Should I go back to her?

You know, just apologize and try to win her back! At least you guys can be normal friends, maybe even better! What have you got to lose? Just do it man! Good luck!

 

First of all: "I was friendzoned"

The friendzone is never a place a girl puts you. It's where you put yourself.

Every single time I've heard someone say this, it was a simple case of them never pursuing the person. If you act like you want to be friends with a girl, then don't expect her to suddenly up and suck your dick. If you're interested in someone, guy or girl, you don't just act friendly and hope they express their love to you. You take them out on dates, you flirt, you touch, you make moves. If you treat a girl like another one of your friends, that's all they'll ever be.

Secondly, if you get so offended by someone not liking your type of humour that you decide to block them, then right now you're too immature for a relationship anyway. People have different senses of humour, but especially making jokes about someone in a way they don't like isn't the way to their heart, it's just a way to piss them off. Just imagine how toxic that relationship would have been if you're ready to block someone over something so silly.

It's very hard to tease or be flirty with someone who has a completely different sense of humour to you, so I'd personally just move on. It doesn't sound like you two are a match, it just sounds like you developed a crush and have unrequited feelings because you haven't made a move. Forget about it, you'll have plenty more crushes.

Go out, make some friends, meet some girls, and stop taking things too seriously. Don't friendzone yourself in future, and socialise more so that you're more socially aware of what humour is acceptable with which people etc.

Don't worry dude, we've all been there at some point. I was too, it happens. You already answered your own question in your post though. You said after you relapsed you started thinking about her. That tells me that just like PMO, she was another addiction for you, a bad habit that you need to cut out. So cut it out and move forward.

You got this dude!

 

MOVE ON DUDE...!!

Really, trust me I've been there (Honestly, my M case is almost every time imagining about her). And you know what? It's not worth it, just wasting your time and energy. I was quite late to realize that. Hope It won't be happening to you.

Forget the sound in your head that say, "She is the one for me.", or, "We are destined to be together.". Believe me, there are millions girls out there, who will accept your so called "sense of humor". Expand your world, Expand your social circle, and hopefully one day you will find them somehow.

Sometimes it's all just in your head.

 

friendzone is the death of an upgrade for a relationship. i am a girl. i couldn't be friends with someone in the hope that person will change his mind. what is the point of going back to her?

 

Your sense of humour is ok, don't change yourself for anyone. There is nothing wrong with you. You will find a girl who likes everything about you. A girl who truly likes who you are

 

You already lost her.