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Should I go see a escort ?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by AlphaAlone, Aug 23, 2019.

  1. TheGr8Mattsby

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    I am in Canada. While it is not legal up here, the laws are not enforced and there is a very laissez-faire attitude about it all. It's easily accessible and there are no issues with law enforcement.

    I have contracted an STD - though it is likely from me not being careful.

    I would be very careful about doing this in the US. As far as I know they are much more punitive about it if you are caught. I honestly wish I had never started ten years ago, but I am currently trying to quit it as well as PMO. Just like PMO it will reduce your desire to meet real women (I haven't had a girlfriend in all that time) and it will really drain your bank account if you do it regularly. So much so that I have really put myself behind the eight ball in terms of being able to afford to support a family one day.
     
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  2. MisterDirection

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    Sex is a want not a need

    It was compared to food.

    While u can die from hunger, horny never killed anyone
     
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  3. exactly.
    I gave up trying to explain that to this guy...I’m not the best to do so.
     
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  4. Yet even with legalized prostitution it is not necessary safe, and the workers can be of high risk such as:
    One of the most disturbing discoveries I made was that the loudest voices calling for legalisation and normalisation of prostitution are the people who profit from it: pimps, punters and brothel owners. They have succeeded in speaking for the women under their control. The people who know the real story about the sex trade have been gagged by a powerful lobby of deluded ‘liberal’ ideo-logues and sex-trade profiteers.

    Legalisation of prostitution in Germany, Holland and Australia has not led to a decrease in violence, HIV rates or in fewer women being murdered. I met a former ‘sex workers rights’ activist in Melbourne, Sabrinna Valisce, who, confronted with the reality of decriminalisation, had a dramatic change of heart. ‘I thought it would improve things if everything was legal and above board, but it just gave more power to the johns and the brothel-ownershttps://www.spectator.co.uk/2017/08/most-sex-workers-are-modern-day-slaves/
     
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  5. King Tut

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    you can say the same thing about socializing, and intimacy. but the point is that humans all NEED it in order to be healthy mentally and yes even physically. or you could just go get neutered. you won't need sex afterwards.
     
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  6. SaitamStrong

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    Thanks man !
    Yeah that's it loneliness, laziness, boredom.
     
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  7. History shows this assumption to be both inaccurate and dangerous man.

    everyone does not have sex.
    everyone does not socialize.

    Sex is supposed to be the bond of two loving people but in many cases people have love without sex.

    the fact you are using extremes to justify your theory speaks to the childishness of it.

    as for people getting “neutered”, eunuchs have been around for thousands of years....
     
  8. King Tut

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    wow, you're an idiot. and this is my last reply to you. next time, actually read what someone is typing before replying. i never said that everyone has sex nor socializes, but u need these 2 to be sane and happy. these are not a need to survive and not die, but they're a need in order to normally function as a man and actually as a male species. lack of sex is why u got nomad lions pair up and raid prides-to take over and get access to sex and socialization. lack of sex is also why in the old times tribes raided town, pillaged and raped all the women. and unfortunately nowadays incels shoot up schools instead.
     
  9. you just proved my point.

    1. name -calling “sign of childishness.”
    2. Your belief in evolution is part of the problem with your theories.
    3. You are advocating sex is the solution to school mass Murder.

    the old adage is “its better to be quiet when you don’t know something, rather than open your mouth and remove all doubt.”

    If I sound like James spader in my rebuke to you, it’s because I have been binging on the blacklist and love the monologue of responses that Raymond reddington gives that reference both snarky wit and his above average intellect.

    Apologies if I’m coming across harsh, I don’t have any beef with you. Thanks for opinion even if I disagree.
     
  10. 12&6

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    Ive heard many people thank escorts for helping them w/ PIED. I questioned it a lot myself but then realized its a thing. I have friends in the swingers community,adult media industry and modeling( no porn) field. Its essentially all a press the flesh and to an extent use based field. William Holden once said" actors are all whores, we sell ourselves" it can be looked at in different ways. Functional,and asthetic.
    Im not judging you nor would I. I dont care your preferance,ethic,religous or non religous background but I will say whats your function for it? Release? They can help w/ that. They can also help w/ experience(but everyones diffetent- and escorts are there for what YOU want) its almost like the better they are the worse they get lmfao....if you do,keep it functional maybe just some oral at best(youll probably unload faster than a May Day parade or some AirShow anyways) be careful. Ive always been a very sex positive individual. Ive always been very sexual as well but its best to not dance to close to that fire brother. You dont really know how hot it can get until your in it and it consumes you. You know it can burn you. Dont tempt it.
    In the end its your choice- but like the other said here- look into the root. If you do it-just contain and know its function. Its to help you release. Do not let it control you or your mind wander.
     
  11. 12&6

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    Im not trying to toot any horns or act a Chad. I am by all means your average man, yet Ive run into this before and it scared me but also invigorated me to challenge. Lucky I was in good company w/ women I knew....I once was going at it w/ three women and I ran into the same boat. It became a chore but finally hours and what seemed like 20lbs of sweat later I unloaded. Literally the two others came an went for water. Fun,great but man exhausting and the woman who received said bounty needed a medal. As did that matteress we all played on. I never had anything that bad happen-and we all galloped through ALL the borrows...all 31 flavors. Nothing worked. I was worried-scared.. honest!! Thats when I realized ok ladies....we cant play anymore,or if we do we need to keep it to just "normal" friends shit. Like " Hi, how are you,lets grab a bite to eat,not pound things like steelworkers" Be careful how you rub that lamp brother.....PS- this may sound bad but that women who said you were on something after twenty minutes. This is gonna sound bad but...Wtf. Unprofessional. This isnt a GM production line. Whose the one w/the issue. Id get in touch w/ her local or the bbb for her lmfao...kidding. Aside-that should have been your answer right there.
     
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  12. Fullyawake

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    I had thoughts about an escort once, but it’s not worth it. It’s really not. Why? Because it’s short term thinking. That effort needs to be put into something long term and real.
     
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  13. Veritech

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    I had posted before and got too graphic in the detail of pleasure with an escort.

    The point that I was trying to make and am making is that the time with the escort may be fun and sensual during your allotted time with her.

    You may feel relieved for an hour or so at a hefty financial price; but when time is up, you immediately feel lonelier and crappy than ever.

    ...I also apologize to all and especially to the moderators for the inappropriate post...
     
  14. greenishmoon

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    Nice data there. Thank you!
     
  15. I’m sure you are fine bro.
    There’s a fine line sometimes.
    Hang in here. We need your voice
     
  16. You should check out my post on this...i think it will help you
     
  17. sam30

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    You are on 105 days NoFap have you overcome the question on your thread as for me?
     
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  18. Alright:)

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    True .
    its like love - love is a choice,not a feeling . the brain keeps on tricking the shit out of us , u gotta stay alert and be in full awareness.

    just breathe , in with peace , out with stress. once you realize you are one with the universe - u need nothing at all . simplicity its the must power-full thing in the world , the flow of the wind , the way it impacts the leaves and trees , they way your pupil expands once it exposed to light , they way your lunges expand when taking deep breath , all goes with the flow , all goes with the rhythm of the universe. we are one bro !
     
  19. Yes. Join the escort challenge to learn about it.
     
  20. Andrewsaint

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    If you can not hold it anymore or your wife or girlfriends is far away, then I would suggest seeing an escort in your region, as you can start doing something with help of no one and you know what I mean.
     
    Last edited: Oct 31, 2020

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