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Should I go see a escort ?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by AlphaAlone, Aug 23, 2019.

  1. this is an incredibly bad suggestion. Why not suggest a dick-guillotine ?
     
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  2. not sure about your concept of ''NoFap''.
     
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  3. Escort is the most easy way. Real men should not consider it as an option.
     
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  4. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    exactly we are NoFap to the core no escorts over here
     
  5. This was a bit to detailed lol
     
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  6. Escorts/prostitutes are actually just as bad or even worse than if you were to fap to porn. Not worth it in my experience
     
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  7. blunt.ever

    blunt.ever Fapstronaut

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    You need more self-esteem, son.
     
  8. BudBundy99

    BudBundy99 Fapstronaut

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    No, There's SO many cons to this and its often not worth the risk...its incredibly tempting I know, your brain thinks "A REAL LIVE naked woman that I can touch and have sex with! Let's GO!" but that's problematic for so many reasons and its the lust talking, lust is just so powerful its insane, you see someone like an escort you can HAVE them for like an hour and you just want more and more kick starting an addiction as you need to pay again and again to have the same experience...its also the endless novelty of escorts but with the heightened danger of it being REAL life sex...

    1st you don't know if the prostitute is trafficked she likely IS, its more common than you think and that's a horrible feeling
    2nd the legal risk, can you handle the legal risk involved?
    3rd can you handle KEEPING it a secret for life? Lying to a potential spouse about your virginity? Personally I'd RATHER be a virgin than lose it this way...

    Your mind may try to rationalize it as "oh well I can practice on an escort so then when I'm with someone I care about I'll be good at sex" but that's faulty reasoning as someone you care about won't care your a virgin and likely will be flattered...
     
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  9. You'll feel worse about yourself afterwards
     
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  10. BudBundy99

    BudBundy99 Fapstronaut

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    Porn is literally better in THAT respect at least its WORSE than porn as there's a lot more danger to it, its like LUST in its purest form against many religions, the only people who really defend sex "work" are a small minority of escorts it just messes with your head, it literally messes with your head WORSE than porn, even from a non-religious view its AWFUL for your mental health as it messes with you and you BUY into the fantasy you and this escort will ALWAYS be one, always she'll be deeply engrained in your psyche as losing your virginity even as a man is a big deal, despite what society says "its some horrible thing you need to get rid of at 18" like watch the 40-Year Old Virgin, a great comedy that proves waiting is worth it (though it could potentially be triggering due to porn talk, I feel the underlying positive message is a good one)

    The temptation is high I know but when you get the urge be mindful recognize it and do something else like read, listen to music it'll pass... it DOES
     
  11. cresyhorse

    cresyhorse Fapstronaut

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    lol no way
     
  12. greenishmoon

    greenishmoon Fapstronaut

    It didn't happen to you?
     
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  13. cresyhorse

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    well actually this morning I called an escort and turns out we're getting married tommorow like idk what happened i'm so emotionally fulfilled from this wonderful experience.
     
  14. Redemptionisrequired

    Redemptionisrequired Fapstronaut

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    Will the nofap community get invited to the wedding, to celebrate the union that followed this joyous and surreal experience!?

    (Side note, I saw this on the main forum page. I had to look over the thread a bit more to understand what was going on lol, thanks for the laugh!)
     
    Last edited: Jun 15, 2021
  15. cresyhorse

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    aahahahh cheers redempt :emoji_grin:
     
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  16. refreshed323

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    The choice is yours. However, once you make that choice that boundary is crossed. It will be tough to repair that boundary (stop) because of easy access to escorts.
     
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  17. Where I live, it’s a crime to seek escorts online. It’s being referred to as “online prostitution.” The cops in my neighborhood did a big prostitution sting operation that arrested a lot of people due to escorts on the internet. But the option to find escorts on the internet is still there. But I may never know if there’s a cop on the other side of the escort advertisement. Don’t want to be caught by the cops simply because I was too horny over a girl lol.
     
  18. Think I stumbled across this post a year or so back. I haven't read any of the responses yet and I have honestly never tried it myself. Morals aside, I dont know the right answer to this. It is an easy fix. Loosing your virginity wont magically make your insecurities disappear. Not that I would recommend trying it but if you ever decided to do it, maybe it would be good to realize that it was never really about the sex and that the real reason you struggle lies much deeper.

    You can obviously get a girl the normal way. It is just a question about trying enough. Self improvement and all that blahblah will actually get you there some day.
     
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  19. OliGirlz

    OliGirlz New Fapstronaut

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    you need to know that sex can never be a cure for loneliness
     
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  20. Such a powerful statement. Wow.
     

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