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Should I have sex or not even think about it?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Lifeless Muffin, Mar 1, 2017.

  1. Mar 1, 2017 #1
    Lifeless Muffin

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    Hello everyone. I have a question to the experts. I can't explain my situation all over again so I invite you all to read the day 4 chapter of my log.
    Guard book (90+ days Standart)
    Done it? If so you understand my question. Should I have (or at least try to) sex somehow? I'm probably in a phase of the reboot but I seriously want it and I can't see a problem with it. I'm not a serious addict so I don't have to be harsh on myself but I'm still concerned it can be a negative. Please share your knowledge.
     
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  2. Mar 1, 2017 #2
    Harderthansatan

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    Yes have sex if you can. Of course.
    Real sex is the whole point. Internet sex isn't.
     
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  3. Mar 4, 2017 #3
    Deadlihood

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    Say to your woman, "I am the gift."
     
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  4. Mar 4, 2017 #4
    Lifeless Muffin

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    And what if she decide to feed me to her dragons?
     
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  5. Mar 4, 2017 #5
    Deadlihood

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  6. Apr 5, 2017 #6
    Tesslynne

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    LOL! Re the dragons...I had a date with this great guy, later I messed up but anyway, he APPARENTLY had a friend with a kimodo dragon (OMG how FRICKING COOL!) anyway, sometimes I've thought...."....and I didn't even get to see the kimodo dragon!" LOL.

    Sex.
    We get to choose.

    Some go hard mode - no sex. Some go normal mode and have sex. There's arguments for both and ultimately it's up to you.
     
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  7. Apr 5, 2017 #7
    NF SINCE BIRTH

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    My opinion is that you should not focus too much on having sex early in the reboot. At first the urges will mess with your mind and make you pretty needy. I think it is only positive for your reboot to avoid orgasm for a while. The chaser effect can also set an effective stop for your reboot after sex. Since your are a virgin the sex is pretty likely to be really bad. It was for me. If not the PIED was bad enough, I got nervous as well and I just ended up regretting it all. I think a proper reboot is what you need. Forget about sex for a while. After some time you will realize that sex is not everything, that it is actually possible to live a life without being a slave to your urges. You will learn self control. This is going to make you much more interesting as a person.
     
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